During a Christian Believer Bible study a question posed was “Why do you believe?” Maybe a better way to phrase the question would have been “Why are you a Christian?” The one answer participants were not allowed to give was “The Bible says so.” Can you describe the foundation of our faith? Is your foundation based on compassion and grace or because the Bible says so?
I met Ryan years ago while working for Southern Wines. I was a field sales supervisor and he worked for a supplier whose product line was represented by Southern Wines. I had met Ryan before but had never worked with him. On occasions suppliers or winery representatives would come into the market hoping to obtain extra business. Ryan was scheduled to ride with me. Any time two people spend long periods in close quarters with each other general conversations turn more personal. Before I knew it we were talking about the “blue” laws in the state of South Carolina versus the west coast. Ryan’s next comment stunned me. There was, at that time, for him to buy a bottle of wine on a Sunday. He disagreed with the Judeo-Christian foundation for the laws in this country. Now I was insulted. The more Ryan carried on the more I got upset. At one point I thought about stopping my car, letting him out on the side of the road in the middle of the country, and calling someone at my office to come pick him up. I’m glad I didn’t do that for two reasons. First, what would that have said about my claims of being a Christian. It might reinforce the notion by some Christianity is judgmental and uncaring. Second, Ryan is Jewish, his Sabbath is on Saturday. Sunday is just another day to him.
In an article from Christianity Today magazine Drew Dyck addresses the issues surrounding the exodus, especially among the 20-30 year olds, from the church. After reading the article one fact comes to the front, no one really knows because the issues vary widely. Drew, however, makes a good point. Rather than focus on the cause of the issues how do we as Christians respond to objections to the church by others. He generalized two basic responses with one being Christians go on the offensive. It is true, we do that as Christians. Think of how I almost responded to Ryan. Had there been a “come-to-Jesus-meeting” between us, had he not accepted my point of view, then I was ready to put him on the side of the road. The second basic response by Christians is brain freeze. They can’t offer any intellectual dialogue with a doubter. About all they can say is “The Bible says so!”
Let me say now that we as Christians need to show compassion and grace in the same way Jesus offered compassion and grace to us. The Christian faith is a matter of the heart but God has also given us the ability to reason. Since we are capable of carrying intelligent conversations lets make use of it. How would you respond to a doubter? As we enter into the New Year we can reexamine how we as a church and as individuals who profess a belief in Christ are presenting the message. Maybe we can start by listening intently to others. It is possible they are seeking answers. If we let our selves be offended we will never be able to present Jesus in a positive light. Take advantage of Bible studies, Sunday school classes, or study on your own. The more we study the better equipped we are. If we don’t know the answer, then say so, don’t utter “Because the Bible says so”. Admit we don’t know it then research the subject matter. Doubters and non-Christians may gain a deeper respect for Christians. By the way, Ryan and I had a great day, sold a lot of wine, and we became good friends.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Y'all!!!!
The Grace and Peace of our risen Lord Jesus be with you. What an eventful six months it has been. In all honesty, I’m not really sure where to begin. From my initial white knuckle drive down Hwy. 278 on July 3rd to what shall be a memorable week starting with our Christmas Eve service through Epiphany Sunday, every moment has been special. So much I have seen in the ministry of Church of the Palms complimented by the passion of its members. Your love is amazing. Let me express it this way:
Thank you, Church of the Palms for your love and grace. I am so excited about what 2011 holds for our ministries. See y’all soon!
Touched by Love
By
David Norrell
My future is haunted by my past
Many times I have strayed from your path using my own light
When that light dimmed, fear overcame me
Yet, your presence I did not seek
Your unmerited grace I have not earned
Happiness is deceiving
Outward appearance masked the pain deep in my soul
I lived as though your existence was a myth
Love, once a companion, abandoned me
Even you’re your love seemed distant
Walls were erected, moats flooded
Barriers built by human hands
Failed to protect my heart which had grown cold
I pushed but you pushed back
Your love was draped like a shawl around my neck
My heart is made warm by your touch
From my childhood till now made known through others in my life
Never has your perfect love left me
I don’t understand though
Why do you still claim me?
Oh God, found in you is every desire I want
Continue to perfect me in your tenderness
Please give me strength and stamina and words
Include the heart of a servant
So all will know what it means to be touched by unconditional love.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Express Check Out
I love walking into Wal-Mart! The odds of being entertained by other people increase exponentially. Check out time is always fun especially express lanes whether they are self-check or 20 items or less. Through observation some of the conclusions that can be made are:
1) People can’t count. 20 items means 20 or less. Close only counts for horseshoes and hand grenades.
2) People do not know what they are doing. There have been many times I thought of offering help to get them out of the way.
3) When paying by check people wait until the end of the transaction to make check out. Please folks, get with the time and use a debit card. IT’S FASTER.
4) When the transaction is completed and change handed back by the cashier, people seem paralyzed by some traumatic force. Move out of the way so others can get through.
5) When purchasing products people seen to choose the ones with out scan bars or prices. Please people, pay attention so check out time is more efficient.
I observed a woman the other day standing in the 20 items or less line getting frustrated with the cashier. The cashier was waiting on a price check to complete a transaction. Within minutes frustration was verbally expressed by the woman waiting to be checked out. Obviously she was in a hurry. Not much of a Spirit of Charity was it. Of course I thought to myself “Lady, if you are in a hurry maybe you should have chosen a different line”. My Spirit of Charity during this advent season was no better than hers. It’s all about “me”.
After thinking about this incident a thought occurred to me. Yes, I realize thinking is a dangerous pastime for me. But what if Heaven has express lines to check out sins? Surely this would expedite the righteous person’s entry into God’s kingdom, correct? I wonder how many people would actually use the line that says “20 sins or less”. Oh, I’m sure some will try, including me. Can’t you imagine how the events would play out? “Mr. Norrell there seems to be a problem. Your buggy is full. This is the express checkout. Go to another register.” With my luck not only will the line I need to stand in take forever but nothing will be priced or have a scan bar. Standing in line will be like the Snickers commercial, “Not going anywhere anytime soon?” It’s all about “me”.
Isn’t Advent about preparing for the hope to be experienced at Christmas? God came to live with His creation, God is living with His creation, and God will come again restoring His creation in the perfect order which it was created. By expediting our check out speed it seems we are more concerned with our individual status while ignoring the needs of others. When did faith become all about “me”? During this time of the year let us remember the love we have received from God. Love is expressed in different forms such as that we have with our friends, family, spouse, or romantic interests. All is grounded in the perfect love of God (agape). Not only is this an unconditional love that can describe how God loves us where we are but it is the love we should also have for each other. The greatest gift we will receive at Christmas? I believe it to be the life-giving love which comes down from Heaven. Let us take this abundant gift and share it with everyone we come into contact with. Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 13 “Love is patient, love is kind…” describing how we should express love to others. We desire affirmation in our relationships. Share God’s affirming love with others should be our desire since we have accepted God’s gift of redemption. Then maybe, the check out lines won’t be stressful but filled with grace. Now it’s all about “us”.
1) People can’t count. 20 items means 20 or less. Close only counts for horseshoes and hand grenades.
2) People do not know what they are doing. There have been many times I thought of offering help to get them out of the way.
3) When paying by check people wait until the end of the transaction to make check out. Please folks, get with the time and use a debit card. IT’S FASTER.
4) When the transaction is completed and change handed back by the cashier, people seem paralyzed by some traumatic force. Move out of the way so others can get through.
5) When purchasing products people seen to choose the ones with out scan bars or prices. Please people, pay attention so check out time is more efficient.
I observed a woman the other day standing in the 20 items or less line getting frustrated with the cashier. The cashier was waiting on a price check to complete a transaction. Within minutes frustration was verbally expressed by the woman waiting to be checked out. Obviously she was in a hurry. Not much of a Spirit of Charity was it. Of course I thought to myself “Lady, if you are in a hurry maybe you should have chosen a different line”. My Spirit of Charity during this advent season was no better than hers. It’s all about “me”.
After thinking about this incident a thought occurred to me. Yes, I realize thinking is a dangerous pastime for me. But what if Heaven has express lines to check out sins? Surely this would expedite the righteous person’s entry into God’s kingdom, correct? I wonder how many people would actually use the line that says “20 sins or less”. Oh, I’m sure some will try, including me. Can’t you imagine how the events would play out? “Mr. Norrell there seems to be a problem. Your buggy is full. This is the express checkout. Go to another register.” With my luck not only will the line I need to stand in take forever but nothing will be priced or have a scan bar. Standing in line will be like the Snickers commercial, “Not going anywhere anytime soon?” It’s all about “me”.
Isn’t Advent about preparing for the hope to be experienced at Christmas? God came to live with His creation, God is living with His creation, and God will come again restoring His creation in the perfect order which it was created. By expediting our check out speed it seems we are more concerned with our individual status while ignoring the needs of others. When did faith become all about “me”? During this time of the year let us remember the love we have received from God. Love is expressed in different forms such as that we have with our friends, family, spouse, or romantic interests. All is grounded in the perfect love of God (agape). Not only is this an unconditional love that can describe how God loves us where we are but it is the love we should also have for each other. The greatest gift we will receive at Christmas? I believe it to be the life-giving love which comes down from Heaven. Let us take this abundant gift and share it with everyone we come into contact with. Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 13 “Love is patient, love is kind…” describing how we should express love to others. We desire affirmation in our relationships. Share God’s affirming love with others should be our desire since we have accepted God’s gift of redemption. Then maybe, the check out lines won’t be stressful but filled with grace. Now it’s all about “us”.
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Dare to Love
C.S. Lewis once said, “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”
During the summer of 2008 I began preparing the written work for ordination as required by the Book of Discipline. The feedback from my writings told me I had made several mistakes. I still had the oral interviews waiting for me in November 2008 where I knew grace would abound and the love of the Conference Board of Ordained ministry would be shown [Laughing]. Prior to the oral interviews the head of clergy services asked me to bring a copy of a transcript showing I had completed Black Studies as required for ordination. I knew I had time so it was tabled for a short period. Notification of a Wednesday afternoon interview for the week prior to Thanksgiving arrived at my house. I remembered my transcript so I drove to Due West the week of the interview in order that I get an official copy from Erskine Seminary. The registrar was sick therefore she was not in the office on Monday or Tuesday. This meant I needed to obtain my transcript on the morning of the interview. Getting up extra early I made the trek to Due West. Timing was essential so that I would arrive on time to meet the Board of Ordained Ministry. My route to the interview would be from Due West where I would drive to Greenwood, pick up Highway 72 to Clinton then jump on I-26 heading south to a Newberry exit, following Highway 34 towards Winnsboro where I would reach my destination located at White Oak. In a perfect world it was a good plan. We do not live in a perfect world.
The events of the day went as follows. Walking into the Registrar’s office I was told she was eating breakfast. I informed the person why I was there and they told me she would be back in 10 minutes. No problem I thought. My schedule can handle this. An hour passed before I found anyone who knew where the registrar was. The person I needed walked in apologizing saying she had forgotten. Real problem as I was now way behind. This would be cutting things close but it was still doable for me to arrive at White Oak early. All was going according to plan after that until I was stopped for speeding as I entered Clinton. I did my best to inform the state trooper I was on a mission for God but he wasn’t interested. Now I was in a real time crunch. Knowing I had to risk another ticket I pressed down on the accelerator. Finally, with 15 minutes to spare I arrived at the interview location. My mind was racing and the heart beating fast; I never had a chance to gain any composure before my first interview. After I was seated in the first interview room with people staring at me the first question posed to me addressed how was I dealing with my learning disability (dyslexia). “What?!!!!! What disability?” The interviewer said “It is mentioned in your file”. “Stick a fork in me because I am done” I mumbled to myself. I never gained my composure for the rest of the day. In the next interview I could not formulate a coherent thought. The interviewer asked me if I had a learning disability. I thought about asking if anyone wanted to come home with me and kick my dog too. I was continued for another year since I did not pass the BOM. My world had crumbled. I had failed.
The drive home was long and joyless. I passed by the cemetery in Chester where my grandparents are buried. I didn’t go in. Pulling over looking in trying to make sense of everything I thought “Why did y’all have to die when I really need y’all now”? Questions and thoughts crowded my mind. I did not want to see anyone from family to colleagues. I did not want to deal with friends. C.S. Lewis describes a way to protect the heart from all pain. The problem with pushing away love is joy ceases to exist. I did just that. However, God was at work in a way I could not see in the moment. No, God did not cause the problem. He probably thought I had gotten a little big for my britches. God then said “Okay you handle it as best as you see fit”. God was sitting at rock bottom to catch me. I knew I had to tell PPRC of my failure. The members of Liberty Hill UMC embraced me tightly. I learned how to open my heart to love. I loved them deeply but kept them at arms length. My friends, well, I also had put just enough distance between them and me. They kept on loving. Why I will never know. I met with mentors assigned by the BOM who showed me grace. When Annual Conference 2009 came I will admit I did not want to go. Something inside of me kept me there as opposed to checking in then driving home. I saw my interviewers who showed me the grace and love of God. My pain, hurt, and self-control faded as I opened myself up to God’s perfect love. I made it through the next year and now I find myself at the Church of the Palms. Joy abounds in the love shown to me by others and by you, CotP, as well.
How do you define joy? Where have you seen God at work lately? We will all experience times in our lives which push us down. Maybe walls come up to protect the heart from the pain of love. We withdraw into a joyless void. Nehemiah 8:10 tells us “…the joy of the Lord is our strength”. Drawing upon that joy allows us to open our hearts to love. Daring to love means we open ourselves up to potential hurt but also the greatest joy of all, God’s unconditional love. We live in a community which hurts. Jobs at times are scarce. People are rejected. Many reasons exist as why folks hurt. How can we take the message of joy this advent season to others so they may see the unconditional love of God in Jesus Christ?
Joy is not a surface-level happy – it is deeply seated in one’s character. Joy may not always manifest itself in smiles and laughter, but rather in grace and assurance. Joy might be described as knowing something better exists, and holding onto that which is better.
During the summer of 2008 I began preparing the written work for ordination as required by the Book of Discipline. The feedback from my writings told me I had made several mistakes. I still had the oral interviews waiting for me in November 2008 where I knew grace would abound and the love of the Conference Board of Ordained ministry would be shown [Laughing]. Prior to the oral interviews the head of clergy services asked me to bring a copy of a transcript showing I had completed Black Studies as required for ordination. I knew I had time so it was tabled for a short period. Notification of a Wednesday afternoon interview for the week prior to Thanksgiving arrived at my house. I remembered my transcript so I drove to Due West the week of the interview in order that I get an official copy from Erskine Seminary. The registrar was sick therefore she was not in the office on Monday or Tuesday. This meant I needed to obtain my transcript on the morning of the interview. Getting up extra early I made the trek to Due West. Timing was essential so that I would arrive on time to meet the Board of Ordained Ministry. My route to the interview would be from Due West where I would drive to Greenwood, pick up Highway 72 to Clinton then jump on I-26 heading south to a Newberry exit, following Highway 34 towards Winnsboro where I would reach my destination located at White Oak. In a perfect world it was a good plan. We do not live in a perfect world.
The events of the day went as follows. Walking into the Registrar’s office I was told she was eating breakfast. I informed the person why I was there and they told me she would be back in 10 minutes. No problem I thought. My schedule can handle this. An hour passed before I found anyone who knew where the registrar was. The person I needed walked in apologizing saying she had forgotten. Real problem as I was now way behind. This would be cutting things close but it was still doable for me to arrive at White Oak early. All was going according to plan after that until I was stopped for speeding as I entered Clinton. I did my best to inform the state trooper I was on a mission for God but he wasn’t interested. Now I was in a real time crunch. Knowing I had to risk another ticket I pressed down on the accelerator. Finally, with 15 minutes to spare I arrived at the interview location. My mind was racing and the heart beating fast; I never had a chance to gain any composure before my first interview. After I was seated in the first interview room with people staring at me the first question posed to me addressed how was I dealing with my learning disability (dyslexia). “What?!!!!! What disability?” The interviewer said “It is mentioned in your file”. “Stick a fork in me because I am done” I mumbled to myself. I never gained my composure for the rest of the day. In the next interview I could not formulate a coherent thought. The interviewer asked me if I had a learning disability. I thought about asking if anyone wanted to come home with me and kick my dog too. I was continued for another year since I did not pass the BOM. My world had crumbled. I had failed.
The drive home was long and joyless. I passed by the cemetery in Chester where my grandparents are buried. I didn’t go in. Pulling over looking in trying to make sense of everything I thought “Why did y’all have to die when I really need y’all now”? Questions and thoughts crowded my mind. I did not want to see anyone from family to colleagues. I did not want to deal with friends. C.S. Lewis describes a way to protect the heart from all pain. The problem with pushing away love is joy ceases to exist. I did just that. However, God was at work in a way I could not see in the moment. No, God did not cause the problem. He probably thought I had gotten a little big for my britches. God then said “Okay you handle it as best as you see fit”. God was sitting at rock bottom to catch me. I knew I had to tell PPRC of my failure. The members of Liberty Hill UMC embraced me tightly. I learned how to open my heart to love. I loved them deeply but kept them at arms length. My friends, well, I also had put just enough distance between them and me. They kept on loving. Why I will never know. I met with mentors assigned by the BOM who showed me grace. When Annual Conference 2009 came I will admit I did not want to go. Something inside of me kept me there as opposed to checking in then driving home. I saw my interviewers who showed me the grace and love of God. My pain, hurt, and self-control faded as I opened myself up to God’s perfect love. I made it through the next year and now I find myself at the Church of the Palms. Joy abounds in the love shown to me by others and by you, CotP, as well.
How do you define joy? Where have you seen God at work lately? We will all experience times in our lives which push us down. Maybe walls come up to protect the heart from the pain of love. We withdraw into a joyless void. Nehemiah 8:10 tells us “…the joy of the Lord is our strength”. Drawing upon that joy allows us to open our hearts to love. Daring to love means we open ourselves up to potential hurt but also the greatest joy of all, God’s unconditional love. We live in a community which hurts. Jobs at times are scarce. People are rejected. Many reasons exist as why folks hurt. How can we take the message of joy this advent season to others so they may see the unconditional love of God in Jesus Christ?
Joy is not a surface-level happy – it is deeply seated in one’s character. Joy may not always manifest itself in smiles and laughter, but rather in grace and assurance. Joy might be described as knowing something better exists, and holding onto that which is better.
Monday, December 6, 2010
"We wish you a ..."
Which is your choice, Merry Christmas or Merry Xmas or Happy Holidays? Every year this debate surfaces the closer we get to Christmas. Listening to His Radio, WLFJ, in my pick-up one day this issue was the source of a listener generated poll. Putting Christ back into Christmas dominated listener views as one might expect. His Radio was even handing out stickers to put on clothing which said “Wish me a Merry Christmas”. This discussion went on for a week as listeners constantly called the station. The station soon aired a holiday greeting that said “From our family to yours, wishing you a happy holiday”. I about wrecked my pick-up because I was laughing so hard.
Which greeting is your choice? The “X” in Xmas is the Greek letter “Chi” which is the first letter in the Greek word for Christ. It is the holiday season, so “Happy Holidays” recognizes this season as a festive time of year. It seems either greeting will suffice. Oh yeah, I do prefer “Merry Christmas”. Preference depends upon one’s comfort level. During Christmas our thoughts often turn towards parties or entertaining friends. Families gather together in the warmth of homes filled with love. The Christmas Story in the Gospel of Luke 2 may be read at home or heard in a church service pointing toward God’s promises. Isn’t this season to be about hope? How does a holiday debate promote peace?
Regardless of the greeting, this time of the year promotes peace. The meaning of “Peace on earth and goodwill towards men” is forgotten in the debate. Not long ago we, Church of the Palms, served as a host church for Family Promise. I, for one, am grateful for the many churches which participate in this program. I served as one of the over night chaperones in case someone needed anything. Breakfast was prepared the next morning for the families before work and or school. I walked around a corner and was greeted by the joy of a smiling face of a child. For this young girl, someone cared enough to make sure her needs were met and that she was loved wherever she happened to be. Isn’t this the hope we look for during Christmas? No mater the preference of greeting, if we live out the words of hope there will be “Peace on earth and goodwill towards all humankind”.
Which greeting is your choice? The “X” in Xmas is the Greek letter “Chi” which is the first letter in the Greek word for Christ. It is the holiday season, so “Happy Holidays” recognizes this season as a festive time of year. It seems either greeting will suffice. Oh yeah, I do prefer “Merry Christmas”. Preference depends upon one’s comfort level. During Christmas our thoughts often turn towards parties or entertaining friends. Families gather together in the warmth of homes filled with love. The Christmas Story in the Gospel of Luke 2 may be read at home or heard in a church service pointing toward God’s promises. Isn’t this season to be about hope? How does a holiday debate promote peace?
Regardless of the greeting, this time of the year promotes peace. The meaning of “Peace on earth and goodwill towards men” is forgotten in the debate. Not long ago we, Church of the Palms, served as a host church for Family Promise. I, for one, am grateful for the many churches which participate in this program. I served as one of the over night chaperones in case someone needed anything. Breakfast was prepared the next morning for the families before work and or school. I walked around a corner and was greeted by the joy of a smiling face of a child. For this young girl, someone cared enough to make sure her needs were met and that she was loved wherever she happened to be. Isn’t this the hope we look for during Christmas? No mater the preference of greeting, if we live out the words of hope there will be “Peace on earth and goodwill towards all humankind”.
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Peace on Earth
In 1970 a Canadian group, The Original Caste, released the song “One Tin Soldier”. This song was in part a protest to the Vietnam War. If any one remembers the movie Billy Jack then they will also recognize the song as it was in the movie. I am going to date myself a little as I recall vague [strong emphasis on “vague”] memories of the Sonny and Cher Show. Cher did a remake of this song with a cartoon, for their Christmas special, that helped make a strong point. Leading into “One Tin Soldier”, Cher started by singing “It Came Upon a Midnight Clear”. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vg84L84uop8
Soon we will be reading the story of Christmas found in the Gospel of Luke. One point made in Scripture is “peace on earth and goodwill to all men”. In prophecy Jesus is referred to as the “Prince of Peace”. Peace is a big part of what Advent is all about. The popular Christmas hymn “O Little Town of Bethlehem” makes mention of a peaceful city in blissful slumber awaiting the birth of the Messiah. It was anything but peaceful. Romans wanted taxes while the Zealots wanted the Romans out of the region. Peace would be defined by those who were able to conquer the other. During Jesus’ earthly ministry, especially the week prior to his crucifixion, civil unrest dominated the air. Almost everyone knew what would bring about the greatest peace for them and they were willing to kill for it. All in the name of God judgment was meted out.
Today there is great confusion as to the function of the church. Christians are often not quite sure what it is and what it is supposed to do. As far as the New Testament is concerned, a church is a worshipping community. Put in other words, the church is a fellowship of believers, those like them, meeting with Jesus and recognizing his presence in their midst. We do everything to improve our personal relationship with Jesus Christ but what about with others? Are we like those in the video or those who wanted to crucify Jesus by assessing others in the name of God? Are we as the body of Christ reaching out to a community, a friend, co-worker, family member, or even an enemy to bring the message of peace?
In the church stress and tension can undermine the way of peace. Shouldn’t peace be one of the words to describe those who constitute the body of Christ? The world we live in today is far from peaceful. Choices are before us on our journey in life. We may find temporary means in which to discover peace but find the feeling is only temporary. During this advent season ask yourself: What can you do to promote peace? Wherever you go, invite people to worship with you. Connecting your actions with following Jesus may stir curiosity in people who want what you have. Your con¬gregation will find ways to manifest for the community the real hope of Christmas that through Christ, people will find peace and hope. If we make Christ the focus of our lives we have the opportunity to experience an inner peace. In doing so the message we carry to others is influenced by the one in who our hope is placed. To find peace, people need to feel heard and to know they are not alone in their suffering. Combine the conversation with God’s grace, maybe sharing Scripture. Let the hope and peace of Christ assure you that no matter the situation, peace can prevail. (Rethink Church Resources) I leave you with this prayer:
Soon we will be reading the story of Christmas found in the Gospel of Luke. One point made in Scripture is “peace on earth and goodwill to all men”. In prophecy Jesus is referred to as the “Prince of Peace”. Peace is a big part of what Advent is all about. The popular Christmas hymn “O Little Town of Bethlehem” makes mention of a peaceful city in blissful slumber awaiting the birth of the Messiah. It was anything but peaceful. Romans wanted taxes while the Zealots wanted the Romans out of the region. Peace would be defined by those who were able to conquer the other. During Jesus’ earthly ministry, especially the week prior to his crucifixion, civil unrest dominated the air. Almost everyone knew what would bring about the greatest peace for them and they were willing to kill for it. All in the name of God judgment was meted out.
Today there is great confusion as to the function of the church. Christians are often not quite sure what it is and what it is supposed to do. As far as the New Testament is concerned, a church is a worshipping community. Put in other words, the church is a fellowship of believers, those like them, meeting with Jesus and recognizing his presence in their midst. We do everything to improve our personal relationship with Jesus Christ but what about with others? Are we like those in the video or those who wanted to crucify Jesus by assessing others in the name of God? Are we as the body of Christ reaching out to a community, a friend, co-worker, family member, or even an enemy to bring the message of peace?
In the church stress and tension can undermine the way of peace. Shouldn’t peace be one of the words to describe those who constitute the body of Christ? The world we live in today is far from peaceful. Choices are before us on our journey in life. We may find temporary means in which to discover peace but find the feeling is only temporary. During this advent season ask yourself: What can you do to promote peace? Wherever you go, invite people to worship with you. Connecting your actions with following Jesus may stir curiosity in people who want what you have. Your con¬gregation will find ways to manifest for the community the real hope of Christmas that through Christ, people will find peace and hope. If we make Christ the focus of our lives we have the opportunity to experience an inner peace. In doing so the message we carry to others is influenced by the one in who our hope is placed. To find peace, people need to feel heard and to know they are not alone in their suffering. Combine the conversation with God’s grace, maybe sharing Scripture. Let the hope and peace of Christ assure you that no matter the situation, peace can prevail. (Rethink Church Resources) I leave you with this prayer:
The Prayer of St. Francis
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Does this make my butt look big?
The holiday’s are here! Families, if able, will gather together for a big Thanksgiving Day feast. In my mind I am picturing the festive outfits which will be adorned as part of the celebration. There are some who have put forth a great effort to find the perfect outfit. Isn’t funny the emphasis our culture places on “how to dress” regardless of the situation? I can’t think of one person who will wake up in the morning and say “I don’t care what I look like”. Do you realize Amazon.com places books on “how to dress” in at least 10 different categories?
Recently I had a humbling experience on how to dress. One of the categories from Amazon.com is “how to dress according to body type”. On my way to Greenville to attend a high school football game with Meghan I decided that blue jeans would be preferable to the warm-up pants I had on. The Columbiana Mall has a Sears store and I knew Sears carries my favorite brand of jeans (Levi’s). It did not take long to locate the department where the jeans were located. I was looking for a specific style. If anyone has shopped for jeans as of late the different styles can leave one searching for hours to find the perfect style. I went into the store looking for a specific style. Straight leg jeans are ok but I wanted boot cut jeans. After an hour of scouring the racks some boot cut jeans were discovered. They looked a little different but nothing out of the norm. Found my size but decided to try the jeans on. Putting them on, my first thought was “I don’t remember Levi’s being cut this slim”. It took a few minutes but I squeezed into this pair of jeans. Of course the standard question comes to mind as I wondered if these made my butt look too big {chuckling}. In a crunch the jeans would work but something was not right. Upon further inspection I noticed these were skinny jeans. Staring at myself in the changing room mirror while wearing these jeans it was evident that the world, much less those who know me, was not ready to see me wearing skinny jeans. Can’t honestly say I was ready to see myself in those jeans. Needless to say normal boot cut jeans were finally purchased in another store in the mall.
All in all I wasted valuable time while looking for clothes I felt would make me look my best. We were late getting to the game. In the Sermon on the Mount part of what Jesus teaches is we should not worry about what to wear. When worry invades our hearts and minds time is wasted as a solution to the problem is sought. Our focus becomes inward as we see only part of the picture instead of the whole picture. Through out Scripture God has never abandoned humanity. Humanity has abandoned God thinking it knows best. If only I had been satisfied with what I was wearing more time would have been spent with Meghan and Jackson. They are by far and away more precious than a pair of jeans that make me feel good about myself.
What is your deepest hope this Christmas? How can we share the hope we find in Christ with others? Advent is a time of preparation to receive God’s gift of love revealed in Jesus. Rather than worry about how our butts look or what outfit makes us look best maybe we might place our trust in God to take care of our needs and desires. Another way might be by avoiding internal solutions to our worries grounded in our finite understanding but seeking God’s kingdom first. Doesn’t God know us better than we know ourselves? Placing trust in God enables us to see the big picture. The needs of others, including our community, are made known. Now we are able to be dressed in clothes, which make us look our very best. No longer is time being wasted while looking for the perfect outfit. Through us, the church, the message hope of in Jesus Christ can be revealed to a world wanting to be adorned in the finest clothes.
Recently I had a humbling experience on how to dress. One of the categories from Amazon.com is “how to dress according to body type”. On my way to Greenville to attend a high school football game with Meghan I decided that blue jeans would be preferable to the warm-up pants I had on. The Columbiana Mall has a Sears store and I knew Sears carries my favorite brand of jeans (Levi’s). It did not take long to locate the department where the jeans were located. I was looking for a specific style. If anyone has shopped for jeans as of late the different styles can leave one searching for hours to find the perfect style. I went into the store looking for a specific style. Straight leg jeans are ok but I wanted boot cut jeans. After an hour of scouring the racks some boot cut jeans were discovered. They looked a little different but nothing out of the norm. Found my size but decided to try the jeans on. Putting them on, my first thought was “I don’t remember Levi’s being cut this slim”. It took a few minutes but I squeezed into this pair of jeans. Of course the standard question comes to mind as I wondered if these made my butt look too big {chuckling}. In a crunch the jeans would work but something was not right. Upon further inspection I noticed these were skinny jeans. Staring at myself in the changing room mirror while wearing these jeans it was evident that the world, much less those who know me, was not ready to see me wearing skinny jeans. Can’t honestly say I was ready to see myself in those jeans. Needless to say normal boot cut jeans were finally purchased in another store in the mall.
All in all I wasted valuable time while looking for clothes I felt would make me look my best. We were late getting to the game. In the Sermon on the Mount part of what Jesus teaches is we should not worry about what to wear. When worry invades our hearts and minds time is wasted as a solution to the problem is sought. Our focus becomes inward as we see only part of the picture instead of the whole picture. Through out Scripture God has never abandoned humanity. Humanity has abandoned God thinking it knows best. If only I had been satisfied with what I was wearing more time would have been spent with Meghan and Jackson. They are by far and away more precious than a pair of jeans that make me feel good about myself.
What is your deepest hope this Christmas? How can we share the hope we find in Christ with others? Advent is a time of preparation to receive God’s gift of love revealed in Jesus. Rather than worry about how our butts look or what outfit makes us look best maybe we might place our trust in God to take care of our needs and desires. Another way might be by avoiding internal solutions to our worries grounded in our finite understanding but seeking God’s kingdom first. Doesn’t God know us better than we know ourselves? Placing trust in God enables us to see the big picture. The needs of others, including our community, are made known. Now we are able to be dressed in clothes, which make us look our very best. No longer is time being wasted while looking for the perfect outfit. Through us, the church, the message hope of in Jesus Christ can be revealed to a world wanting to be adorned in the finest clothes.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
There's Gotta Be More
Where has the time gone? What happened to Halloween? I am not really sure I am ready for Thanksgiving Day to be here. The holiday rush unofficially kicks off on Black Friday (Day after Thanksgiving). On this day, some folks will camp out in front of the store, long before it opens, which they feel holds the key to happiness on Christmas Day. Others will continue a meticulous search until the ultimate happiness is located. Then there are those, like me, who coast through the holiday rush until they wake up in a panic realizing there is much work needed to be done. Ultimately, in each case, we are trying to be prepared for a single moment in time which is gone in the blink of an eye. Is it any wonder we walk around in a daze, looking confused, struggling to locate the happiness we so desire?
What brings about happiness for you during this time of the year? For me, I have always enjoyed watching Christmas movies. Nothing beats the classics. Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer (Claymation), A Charlie Brown Christmas, and A Christmas Carol (1938) are a few I enjoy. My absolute favorite is A Christmas Story based on a novel by Jean Shepherd. Hours upon hours are spent viewing many movies. Let’s not forget about “TBS presents” a “24-hours of A Christmas Story”. Unless all the movies are seen, the Christmas experience seems unfulfilled. Happiness is defined by the time wasted watching programs that bring about a temporary satisfaction. As soon as the holidays are over I am left with confused thoughts, asking “Is this all there is?”
In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we tend to expend energy in hopes of achieving happiness. During this process confusion at times creates a lack of direction. If we lose direction, then possibly we loose purpose. Without purpose, we see no hope for the future, much less the present. Everyday matters create a high level of distress. Solutions elude out grasp.
Advent starts the Sunday after Thanksgiving Day. In the next four weeks we will spend time preparing for the receiving of God’s gift in Jesus Christ. We are getting ready for the celebration of Christmas. Advent points towards God’s promise to dwell among us. In the midst of our hope and despair, all is not lost since God is walking with us. We see purpose for our lives. In that purpose, hope abounds leading us to happiness. A permanent happiness that fulfills every molecule of our being is found in Jesus Christ. As we experience a transformation in our lives, we are able to see the needs of others. We then take the hope found in Advent to the community through our outreach: a happiness that never ends.
What brings about happiness for you during this time of the year? For me, I have always enjoyed watching Christmas movies. Nothing beats the classics. Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer (Claymation), A Charlie Brown Christmas, and A Christmas Carol (1938) are a few I enjoy. My absolute favorite is A Christmas Story based on a novel by Jean Shepherd. Hours upon hours are spent viewing many movies. Let’s not forget about “TBS presents” a “24-hours of A Christmas Story”. Unless all the movies are seen, the Christmas experience seems unfulfilled. Happiness is defined by the time wasted watching programs that bring about a temporary satisfaction. As soon as the holidays are over I am left with confused thoughts, asking “Is this all there is?”
In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we tend to expend energy in hopes of achieving happiness. During this process confusion at times creates a lack of direction. If we lose direction, then possibly we loose purpose. Without purpose, we see no hope for the future, much less the present. Everyday matters create a high level of distress. Solutions elude out grasp.
Advent starts the Sunday after Thanksgiving Day. In the next four weeks we will spend time preparing for the receiving of God’s gift in Jesus Christ. We are getting ready for the celebration of Christmas. Advent points towards God’s promise to dwell among us. In the midst of our hope and despair, all is not lost since God is walking with us. We see purpose for our lives. In that purpose, hope abounds leading us to happiness. A permanent happiness that fulfills every molecule of our being is found in Jesus Christ. As we experience a transformation in our lives, we are able to see the needs of others. We then take the hope found in Advent to the community through our outreach: a happiness that never ends.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
I wonder who God voted for?
Election Day has come and gone. This alone should cause us to get down on our knees and thank God from whom all blessings flow! Inevitably God always seems to be a big part of campaign speeches and supporters of various candidates. So this begs the question, did the candidate endorsed by God win the election? In the United States we like to equate God with our political beliefs, which generally include party affiliation.
The Sunday after Election Day 2004 I prayed for the newly elected leaders to seek God’s will, not their own. One of the church members stood up, walked out, and did not attend church services for several months. She was upset because she felt the prayer, names of candidates were never mentioned, was stating George W. Bush was God’s candidate. I tried to explain that we should be praying for our elected officials to seek God’s direction in all decisions. Quickly I was informed that not one person should ever pray for President Bush since “he is evil”.
Rarely do I listen to the Focus on the Family radio show hosted by James Dobson. The show has, in my opinion, strayed from James Dobson’s strengths as a psychologist while focusing on political choices. One particular day, prior to the 2008 elections, I left the radio show on as two Republican candidates seeking office in Colorado were being interviewed. Inferences were drawn concerning the political stances of their opponents. In essence, a vote for the Republican Party is a vote for the candidates endorsed by God.
If you voted, whom did God tell you to vote for? Did you ask? Isaiah 9 reminds us of God’s political choice. For the follower of Jesus the Christ (notice I did not use the term “Christian”), we should remember how the quality of God’s reign has been ushered in through the authority given to Jesus. In this passage is a vision of a world government that is peaceful, that will never end, and that seeks God’s will, not the will of human logic. God isn’t interested in any particular candidate. Maybe, if we start seeking discernment from God, it will not matter who is elected but that God is being invited into our decision-making. Perhaps then we see the beginnings of a peaceful government, grounded in God’s redeeming grace, which has no end.
The Sunday after Election Day 2004 I prayed for the newly elected leaders to seek God’s will, not their own. One of the church members stood up, walked out, and did not attend church services for several months. She was upset because she felt the prayer, names of candidates were never mentioned, was stating George W. Bush was God’s candidate. I tried to explain that we should be praying for our elected officials to seek God’s direction in all decisions. Quickly I was informed that not one person should ever pray for President Bush since “he is evil”.
Rarely do I listen to the Focus on the Family radio show hosted by James Dobson. The show has, in my opinion, strayed from James Dobson’s strengths as a psychologist while focusing on political choices. One particular day, prior to the 2008 elections, I left the radio show on as two Republican candidates seeking office in Colorado were being interviewed. Inferences were drawn concerning the political stances of their opponents. In essence, a vote for the Republican Party is a vote for the candidates endorsed by God.
If you voted, whom did God tell you to vote for? Did you ask? Isaiah 9 reminds us of God’s political choice. For the follower of Jesus the Christ (notice I did not use the term “Christian”), we should remember how the quality of God’s reign has been ushered in through the authority given to Jesus. In this passage is a vision of a world government that is peaceful, that will never end, and that seeks God’s will, not the will of human logic. God isn’t interested in any particular candidate. Maybe, if we start seeking discernment from God, it will not matter who is elected but that God is being invited into our decision-making. Perhaps then we see the beginnings of a peaceful government, grounded in God’s redeeming grace, which has no end.
Sunday, October 31, 2010
A Year Round Craving
The moon caught my attention while driving home from the church one night last week. There was this beautiful harvest moon hanging low in the sky illuminating the path which lay in front of me. A perfect setting for this time of year as Halloween is only several days from now. The days are growing shorter which means the holiday season is upon us. Holidays seem to have a unique way of shaping our thoughts. Halloween, for some, marks the beginning of the holidays. Anticipation grows with the special programming that celebrates the holiday season. One of my favorite shows is “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown” which is why I am craving a Dolly Madison snack cake at this moment. I remember watching this show as a young boy when a commercial break would advertise a product from one of the show’s sponsors. Dolly Madison was a sponsor of the show. These snack cakes inevitably looked yummy. Ever since then I have always craved Dolly Madison snack cakes at Halloween.
Another holiday is the day after Halloween. It also invites specific thoughts due to the nature of why it is celebrated. The name of this holiday is All-Saints Day. On this day we celebrate the lives of those who have been instrumental in building the Kingdom of God. Special emphasis is given to those who have passed away since the last All-Saints Day yet included on this day are all of the saints. Fond memories or specific days often come to mind as we remember the person. At times I find myself smiling or even laughing as I get lost in my memories. The void in my life created by death also makes me cry at times. All-Saints Day is a day we remember those people who have shaped our lives. Who is that saint for you? How does this holiday shape your thoughts?
My calling into ministry would never have been possible if not for specific people in my life. Family and friends have played a crucial role in my spiritual development but one person would have a profound effect upon my calling into ministry. Kevin Treu is, in my opinion, a builder for the Kingdom of God. Let me stop for a second and say that Kevin is still alive (I know he will be relieved with this good news). The saints of the church are not just the past but they are the present and future as well. Kevin Treu taught and still teaches the Friends in Faith Sunday school class at Covenant UMC. By profession Kevin is a professor at Furman University. Through his ability to teach my life would be forever changed. One thing I noticed was the joy and passion he had for teaching Scripture. The Bible came alive for me. Kevin did not lecture which could create a passive environment for us but kept us active through open discussions. I found in me a growing desire to study Scripture deeper all the time not just once a year. This desire led me to hear my calling into ministry more clearly.
Imagine no more death or tears or pain. What would that be like? The saints of the church build the Kingdom of God as they help shape our spiritual journey by using their gifts and talents. Each saint has a gift and through that gift the body of Christ grows. The saints do not serve for their own personal glory but glorify the One who will make all things new. God spoke through Isaiah “O Israel, you will not be forgotten by me…return to me, for I have redeemed you”. Those who serve Christ provide a way for the promise of redemption by God to be experienced in a world of uncertainty. No, I am not a saint but I sure hope to be like them. One day I hope I am counted among them. In the mean time lets you and me stand side by side to provide a firm foundation for the good news so others may experience the Christ who makes all things new. Thank you Saints of the past, present, and future.
Another holiday is the day after Halloween. It also invites specific thoughts due to the nature of why it is celebrated. The name of this holiday is All-Saints Day. On this day we celebrate the lives of those who have been instrumental in building the Kingdom of God. Special emphasis is given to those who have passed away since the last All-Saints Day yet included on this day are all of the saints. Fond memories or specific days often come to mind as we remember the person. At times I find myself smiling or even laughing as I get lost in my memories. The void in my life created by death also makes me cry at times. All-Saints Day is a day we remember those people who have shaped our lives. Who is that saint for you? How does this holiday shape your thoughts?
My calling into ministry would never have been possible if not for specific people in my life. Family and friends have played a crucial role in my spiritual development but one person would have a profound effect upon my calling into ministry. Kevin Treu is, in my opinion, a builder for the Kingdom of God. Let me stop for a second and say that Kevin is still alive (I know he will be relieved with this good news). The saints of the church are not just the past but they are the present and future as well. Kevin Treu taught and still teaches the Friends in Faith Sunday school class at Covenant UMC. By profession Kevin is a professor at Furman University. Through his ability to teach my life would be forever changed. One thing I noticed was the joy and passion he had for teaching Scripture. The Bible came alive for me. Kevin did not lecture which could create a passive environment for us but kept us active through open discussions. I found in me a growing desire to study Scripture deeper all the time not just once a year. This desire led me to hear my calling into ministry more clearly.
Imagine no more death or tears or pain. What would that be like? The saints of the church build the Kingdom of God as they help shape our spiritual journey by using their gifts and talents. Each saint has a gift and through that gift the body of Christ grows. The saints do not serve for their own personal glory but glorify the One who will make all things new. God spoke through Isaiah “O Israel, you will not be forgotten by me…return to me, for I have redeemed you”. Those who serve Christ provide a way for the promise of redemption by God to be experienced in a world of uncertainty. No, I am not a saint but I sure hope to be like them. One day I hope I am counted among them. In the mean time lets you and me stand side by side to provide a firm foundation for the good news so others may experience the Christ who makes all things new. Thank you Saints of the past, present, and future.
Friday, October 22, 2010
Who's on first?
A couple of years ago I was sitting around the house with my son pulling up different videos of comedians on YouTube. Since Jackson is into baseball I thought he would enjoy “Who’s on first” by Abbott and Costello. This particular skit has to be one of the funniest if not the funniest routines I have ever watched. I thought Jackson just might split a seam as he was laughing so hard. After the clip was over he wanted to watch it again.
Costello wants to know the names of the players on the field. If he knows the names of the players then he can greet them personally should he run into the players on the streets. Abbott, the manager, starts the conversation out by saying “Who’s on first, What’s on second, and I Don’t Know is on third base”. Of course the names do not improve as the left fielder is “Why”, the pitcher is “Tomorrow”, and the catcher is “Today”. After some confusion Costello lays out a scenario, which happens to be correct, and fails to understand what he has just said. Somewhere along the course of this confusing conversation the listener may be thinking that Abbott ought to write everything down for Costello. An even better way could be using first and last names. Costello might make the connection that these are the names of the players and not evasive answers from Abbott. To quote the line from Cool Hand Luke, “What we got here is a failure to communicate”. Ever feel this way in the church?
Communication in the church comes across as a comedy routine. One person is asking questions, another is answering the questions, but the connection between the two parties doesn’t exist. When communications break down frustrations eventually start to surface. In the skit by Abbott and Costello I can sense the frustrations of Costello as he feels the answers are saying a whole lot of nothing. Unfortunately, when breakdowns in the church occur, it is not laughter that ensues but frustration then anger then members leaving to go elsewhere. What may have been seen as a promising witness from the church, instead will eventually see the body of Christ cease to exist.
What can we, Church of the Palms, do to avoid communication breakdowns? If and when breakdowns do occur, how can we deal with them in a most positive manner that is reflective of a Christ-like attitude? Robert Bolton lays out some keys to effective communication in his book People Skills. 1) Be genuine. Educate ones elf on issues in order to see the whole picture. This leads to formulating opinions or thoughts yet we share our feelings responsibly. 2) Non-possessive love. We may not like a person yet we love that person anyway. When we love a person unconditionally the anxiety we experience in disagreements seems to go away. Loving without terms or conditions does not mean we develop favorites but is an expression of respect for another person. Unconditional love is the love most likely to be reciprocated by others. 3) Empathy. Put ourselves in someone else’s shoes to gain a better understanding of what that person is thinking or experiencing. Rather than dismissing another person’s thoughts we actually communicate we care about them.
Proverbs 4:23 Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. Attitude is everything. While I do not have the answers to solving all the issues we will face in our church I do know together we will overcome those difficult times. As long as we continue to seek God nothing will be too great that cannot be overcome. I look forward to a long and prosperous ministry as we stand side by side witnessing to the Good News of Jesus Christ.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_gSWTQKE-0
Costello wants to know the names of the players on the field. If he knows the names of the players then he can greet them personally should he run into the players on the streets. Abbott, the manager, starts the conversation out by saying “Who’s on first, What’s on second, and I Don’t Know is on third base”. Of course the names do not improve as the left fielder is “Why”, the pitcher is “Tomorrow”, and the catcher is “Today”. After some confusion Costello lays out a scenario, which happens to be correct, and fails to understand what he has just said. Somewhere along the course of this confusing conversation the listener may be thinking that Abbott ought to write everything down for Costello. An even better way could be using first and last names. Costello might make the connection that these are the names of the players and not evasive answers from Abbott. To quote the line from Cool Hand Luke, “What we got here is a failure to communicate”. Ever feel this way in the church?
Communication in the church comes across as a comedy routine. One person is asking questions, another is answering the questions, but the connection between the two parties doesn’t exist. When communications break down frustrations eventually start to surface. In the skit by Abbott and Costello I can sense the frustrations of Costello as he feels the answers are saying a whole lot of nothing. Unfortunately, when breakdowns in the church occur, it is not laughter that ensues but frustration then anger then members leaving to go elsewhere. What may have been seen as a promising witness from the church, instead will eventually see the body of Christ cease to exist.
What can we, Church of the Palms, do to avoid communication breakdowns? If and when breakdowns do occur, how can we deal with them in a most positive manner that is reflective of a Christ-like attitude? Robert Bolton lays out some keys to effective communication in his book People Skills. 1) Be genuine. Educate ones elf on issues in order to see the whole picture. This leads to formulating opinions or thoughts yet we share our feelings responsibly. 2) Non-possessive love. We may not like a person yet we love that person anyway. When we love a person unconditionally the anxiety we experience in disagreements seems to go away. Loving without terms or conditions does not mean we develop favorites but is an expression of respect for another person. Unconditional love is the love most likely to be reciprocated by others. 3) Empathy. Put ourselves in someone else’s shoes to gain a better understanding of what that person is thinking or experiencing. Rather than dismissing another person’s thoughts we actually communicate we care about them.
Proverbs 4:23 Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. Attitude is everything. While I do not have the answers to solving all the issues we will face in our church I do know together we will overcome those difficult times. As long as we continue to seek God nothing will be too great that cannot be overcome. I look forward to a long and prosperous ministry as we stand side by side witnessing to the Good News of Jesus Christ.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_gSWTQKE-0
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
The Least of These
Matthew 25:40 And the King will answer them, 'Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.'
Matthew 25:45 Then he will answer them, saying, 'Truly, I say to you, as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.'
A friend was visiting San Francisco and would have an experience he never imagined. Let me first tell you a little about the city by the bay. Just the mention of San Francisco may cause you to picture some of the places or things it is known for. Ghirardelli’s Chocolate Factory, Haight Ashbury (where the hippie movement started and also known for The Grateful Dead), Alcatraz Prison, and Fisherman’s Warf are a few of the places which come to mind. The Golden Gate Bridge, one of the most famous structures, and the two-level bridge, which collapsed during the 1989 earthquake, are a couple of the things that catch the attention of visitors. Enhancing the experience of these tourist destinations is the unusual weather pattern. No matter what time of the year it is cold. The wind blowing off the bay puts a chill in the air that if not prepared you might be uncomfortable. Nor is this a gentle breeze but one that can make you work to walk against it.
During my friend’s visit to San Francisco, he would come upon another attraction of the city no one likes to talk about. He and some co-workers decided to eat at a restaurant located at Fisherman’s Warf. After they arrived at their destination my friend said he had not expected to see what he did. The area was very crowded on a late July day with strong winds coming off the bay. As he and his co-workers examined their culinary options my friend’s attention would be captured by another person. Amid the hustle and bustle of the people traffic a man was sitting down with his legs crossed. Eye contact was made. Etched in the mind of my friend were eyes filled with despair, hopelessness, and a person shivering from the cold wind. Not one person stopped to help much less offer him a jacket or sweatshirt. This image stayed with my friend as he and his co-workers sat in a warm diner and satisfied their tummies. It is hard to eat when someone else is starving. After they ate my friend approached this man, prayed for him, and then took him to get something to eat.
Often we think of mission work as building structures or going door-to-door handing out pamphlets. Two of the many things encompassed by mission work are taking care of an immediate need and witness for the good news. Actions can provide the necessary platform for a verbal witness for Jesus Christ. During a devotional for a youth baseball team this scenario was presented for discussions. It would be some of the parents who provided unique answers. One parent responded by saying, “Give a man fish and he will eat for the day, teach a man to fish and he will eat for a lifetime”. Another adult reinforced this idea by stressing the most important thing is to witness for Christ. In essence, both adults felt if this man got to know Jesus then he would be inspired to clean up, get a job, and provide for himself. What about physical needs? Yes, during the earthly ministry of Jesus were many teachings about God. Spiritual nourishment was in abundance but Jesus also met the physical needs of others. Mission work involves both spiritual and physical needs. I feel as though the two cannot be separated.
Sometimes mission work is thought of as teams going out into the world. While this is true we should not forget mission opportunities can be individual as well. Think about the story of the woman at the well in the Gospel of John. Jesus was by himself. He did not go back to gather a team then teach about God, no he taught about God right on the spot. The moment we pass through the doors of the church as we exit thus going out into the world remember that maybe a mission opportunity will present itself. If we open ourselves to the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we will be made aware, as a congregation and as individuals, of the needs of the community. Mission work is about taking care of the physical and spiritual needs of others. Then maybe, people like the man in San Francisco, will get a foretaste of the Kingdom of God when all of creation is redeemed.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4wojcSO9Ww
Matthew 25:45 Then he will answer them, saying, 'Truly, I say to you, as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.'
A friend was visiting San Francisco and would have an experience he never imagined. Let me first tell you a little about the city by the bay. Just the mention of San Francisco may cause you to picture some of the places or things it is known for. Ghirardelli’s Chocolate Factory, Haight Ashbury (where the hippie movement started and also known for The Grateful Dead), Alcatraz Prison, and Fisherman’s Warf are a few of the places which come to mind. The Golden Gate Bridge, one of the most famous structures, and the two-level bridge, which collapsed during the 1989 earthquake, are a couple of the things that catch the attention of visitors. Enhancing the experience of these tourist destinations is the unusual weather pattern. No matter what time of the year it is cold. The wind blowing off the bay puts a chill in the air that if not prepared you might be uncomfortable. Nor is this a gentle breeze but one that can make you work to walk against it.
During my friend’s visit to San Francisco, he would come upon another attraction of the city no one likes to talk about. He and some co-workers decided to eat at a restaurant located at Fisherman’s Warf. After they arrived at their destination my friend said he had not expected to see what he did. The area was very crowded on a late July day with strong winds coming off the bay. As he and his co-workers examined their culinary options my friend’s attention would be captured by another person. Amid the hustle and bustle of the people traffic a man was sitting down with his legs crossed. Eye contact was made. Etched in the mind of my friend were eyes filled with despair, hopelessness, and a person shivering from the cold wind. Not one person stopped to help much less offer him a jacket or sweatshirt. This image stayed with my friend as he and his co-workers sat in a warm diner and satisfied their tummies. It is hard to eat when someone else is starving. After they ate my friend approached this man, prayed for him, and then took him to get something to eat.
Often we think of mission work as building structures or going door-to-door handing out pamphlets. Two of the many things encompassed by mission work are taking care of an immediate need and witness for the good news. Actions can provide the necessary platform for a verbal witness for Jesus Christ. During a devotional for a youth baseball team this scenario was presented for discussions. It would be some of the parents who provided unique answers. One parent responded by saying, “Give a man fish and he will eat for the day, teach a man to fish and he will eat for a lifetime”. Another adult reinforced this idea by stressing the most important thing is to witness for Christ. In essence, both adults felt if this man got to know Jesus then he would be inspired to clean up, get a job, and provide for himself. What about physical needs? Yes, during the earthly ministry of Jesus were many teachings about God. Spiritual nourishment was in abundance but Jesus also met the physical needs of others. Mission work involves both spiritual and physical needs. I feel as though the two cannot be separated.
Sometimes mission work is thought of as teams going out into the world. While this is true we should not forget mission opportunities can be individual as well. Think about the story of the woman at the well in the Gospel of John. Jesus was by himself. He did not go back to gather a team then teach about God, no he taught about God right on the spot. The moment we pass through the doors of the church as we exit thus going out into the world remember that maybe a mission opportunity will present itself. If we open ourselves to the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we will be made aware, as a congregation and as individuals, of the needs of the community. Mission work is about taking care of the physical and spiritual needs of others. Then maybe, people like the man in San Francisco, will get a foretaste of the Kingdom of God when all of creation is redeemed.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4wojcSO9Ww
Thursday, September 30, 2010
The Widow's Offering
It is hard to believe that Charge Conference is a little over a month away. The Administrative Council has been diligently working on the necessary reports that are to be presented during this conference. Each committee chairperson has been evaluating their needs and informing the Council of next year’s expectations. Now we face the unenviable task of putting together a financial budget for 2011 based on these needs. Oh yes, you might have figured out where I am going with this information. It is stewardship time again. I believe the only people liked less than used car salespersons or insurance salespersons are those who ask people to support the church through a financial pledge (lol).
In another visit with Henrietta Thomas, not too long ago, I was once again reminded of what it means to be a follower of Christ. During the visit we were sitting in a common area on a couch talking about things in general. She mentioned her daughter, Anne Abernethy, always seemed to be at the church donating cans of food. I informed Henrietta that we collect food for Bluffton Self Help and Access Networks. What she did next touched me deeply. Henrietta reached into her purse and pulled out a $10 bill and asked me to use this money to buy cans of food for our collection. My first thought turned to Jesus teaching his disciples about giving after the widow made her offering at the temple. Jesus said (paraphrased) “Y’all see those folks over there? It may seem based on the amount of their giving they are large contributors. See that older woman over yonder? She only put a couple of coins in the offering plate. Let me point out that what she gave was nothing more than a drop in the bucket full of water. Yet, her giving came from the heart. Those other folks, well, they gave what was in essence loose change. The church is their last priority.”
Henrietta’s offering was nothing more than a drop in the bucket full of water in the grand scheme of things. All she bought was less than 10 cans of food. Not even a day’s supply of food for Bluffton Self Help or Access Networks. Yet, Henrietta gave from the heart. She just turned 93 years old. How many 93- year- old women do we know, who have a rigidly fixed income that can afford to give away $10? Again, Henrietta taught me a unique lesson in her own way.
I know we emphasize giving in the church by referencing the term “tithing”. Yes, we ask for 10% of your income referencing Abram’s offering to the Melchizedek found in Genesis 14:17-24. This was the first tithe offered. Maybe it is time to rethink how we approach financial support for the church as Stewardship Sunday approaches us in November. The recent economic crisis has damaged giving in the church in general. I can sympathize and empathize with this problem. The church should not pretend that such a condition does not exist. Instead, let’s rethink our approach. Forget about the term “tithe” and let’s talk about faithful giving (me included). While giving by membership pays for church salaries I want you to know that administrative salaries cannot exceed 40% of the total budget. So why do we ask for money?
It is true we are trying to meet our overhead and then sometimes we are in need of money for specific projects. But the most important reason, as I see it, is to support the mission work, along with outreach, of the church. Through giving you are investing in yourself, your church, and in the Kingdom of God. An emotional moment for me came during an Epiphany Weekend several years ago in Columbia at the Broad River Rd. DJJ facility. Epiphany is a prison ministry for incarcerated youth. Like any ministry it plants seeds with the hopes that some one will experience the wonderful grace of God. Team members had sold meal tickets to raise money to offset the cost of food. DJJ is not charged for the youth to attend Epiphany Weekend. It is free. As each meal came out a card was placed at each place setting where a youth was seated. On the card was written “This meal has been provided by __________ out of their love for God and you”. Each ticket sold for $5. Not a lot of money in the grand scheme of things but it was a lot. For some of these teenagers who are behind bars the thought that another person cares about them is inconceivable. I’m not sure who experienced the greater joy, those receiving or those giving. Faithful giving is one way others experience the Kingdom of God. Faithful giving is about the unconditional love of God, which asks for nothing in return. It is not about earning brownie points with God. Faithful giving is one way we worship God.
Like the widow who offers God her all in worship, like Henrietta who offers God her all in worship, let us now do the same and know our offering is a way we worship God. Do not think of giving as an obligation but about how others experience the grace and love of Christ as we can reach out to those in need. Think about the joy on the children’s faces in our church as they light up because someone actually cares enough about them by making sure they have supplies and snacks. Think about those who benefit form our ministries in time of need. Yes, God will say, “Well done good and faithful servant”. This year, please give with your heart and give what you can.
In another visit with Henrietta Thomas, not too long ago, I was once again reminded of what it means to be a follower of Christ. During the visit we were sitting in a common area on a couch talking about things in general. She mentioned her daughter, Anne Abernethy, always seemed to be at the church donating cans of food. I informed Henrietta that we collect food for Bluffton Self Help and Access Networks. What she did next touched me deeply. Henrietta reached into her purse and pulled out a $10 bill and asked me to use this money to buy cans of food for our collection. My first thought turned to Jesus teaching his disciples about giving after the widow made her offering at the temple. Jesus said (paraphrased) “Y’all see those folks over there? It may seem based on the amount of their giving they are large contributors. See that older woman over yonder? She only put a couple of coins in the offering plate. Let me point out that what she gave was nothing more than a drop in the bucket full of water. Yet, her giving came from the heart. Those other folks, well, they gave what was in essence loose change. The church is their last priority.”
Henrietta’s offering was nothing more than a drop in the bucket full of water in the grand scheme of things. All she bought was less than 10 cans of food. Not even a day’s supply of food for Bluffton Self Help or Access Networks. Yet, Henrietta gave from the heart. She just turned 93 years old. How many 93- year- old women do we know, who have a rigidly fixed income that can afford to give away $10? Again, Henrietta taught me a unique lesson in her own way.
I know we emphasize giving in the church by referencing the term “tithing”. Yes, we ask for 10% of your income referencing Abram’s offering to the Melchizedek found in Genesis 14:17-24. This was the first tithe offered. Maybe it is time to rethink how we approach financial support for the church as Stewardship Sunday approaches us in November. The recent economic crisis has damaged giving in the church in general. I can sympathize and empathize with this problem. The church should not pretend that such a condition does not exist. Instead, let’s rethink our approach. Forget about the term “tithe” and let’s talk about faithful giving (me included). While giving by membership pays for church salaries I want you to know that administrative salaries cannot exceed 40% of the total budget. So why do we ask for money?
It is true we are trying to meet our overhead and then sometimes we are in need of money for specific projects. But the most important reason, as I see it, is to support the mission work, along with outreach, of the church. Through giving you are investing in yourself, your church, and in the Kingdom of God. An emotional moment for me came during an Epiphany Weekend several years ago in Columbia at the Broad River Rd. DJJ facility. Epiphany is a prison ministry for incarcerated youth. Like any ministry it plants seeds with the hopes that some one will experience the wonderful grace of God. Team members had sold meal tickets to raise money to offset the cost of food. DJJ is not charged for the youth to attend Epiphany Weekend. It is free. As each meal came out a card was placed at each place setting where a youth was seated. On the card was written “This meal has been provided by __________ out of their love for God and you”. Each ticket sold for $5. Not a lot of money in the grand scheme of things but it was a lot. For some of these teenagers who are behind bars the thought that another person cares about them is inconceivable. I’m not sure who experienced the greater joy, those receiving or those giving. Faithful giving is one way others experience the Kingdom of God. Faithful giving is about the unconditional love of God, which asks for nothing in return. It is not about earning brownie points with God. Faithful giving is one way we worship God.
Like the widow who offers God her all in worship, like Henrietta who offers God her all in worship, let us now do the same and know our offering is a way we worship God. Do not think of giving as an obligation but about how others experience the grace and love of Christ as we can reach out to those in need. Think about the joy on the children’s faces in our church as they light up because someone actually cares enough about them by making sure they have supplies and snacks. Think about those who benefit form our ministries in time of need. Yes, God will say, “Well done good and faithful servant”. This year, please give with your heart and give what you can.
Up Close
Ellis’s was one of the restaurants I used to call on in Spartanburg when I worked for Southern Wines & Spirits. It just so happened that this particular account was one of my favorites. In 2001, Mitchell, the chef and owner, said he had received two free passes from a client for the final round of the Master’s Golf Tournament. Mitchell went on to explain that he knew I played golf and would probably be interested in attending the tournament with him, so he offered me one of the passes. However, there was a caveat. I needed to let him know at that moment if I could attend. I placed the all important phone call home and said “This is not open for debate. I will not be in church on Sunday. I have been offered a pass to attend the final round of the Master’s. I will be in Augusta.” This was a once in a lifetime opportunity. Upon passing through the gates of Augusta National I realized I was not in Kansas anymore. Excitement filled the air as people anticipated seeing their favorite golfer. I noticed a couple of things on this day. First, you can tell how popular a golfer is by the size of the crowd following him. I was standing against the ropes of the 16th tee box when Fred Couples walked up and prepared to make his tee shot. All of a sudden the air around me stopped moving, it got hot, and I felt enclosed. I turned around to see what was happening, and the massive crowd engulfed my position. After Fred Couples made his tee shot the wind started blowing again and I could breathe. The second thing very noticeable was how people arrived early to find a location close to the 18th green. There the people sat, and anticipated the action that was at least four to six hours away. All in all, people were excited to be there and wanted to get as close to the action as possible so they could, through their presence, participate in the action.
Not quite the same in the church as it is at a sporting event, or any other type of event that sparks an interest inside us. It is actually interesting to watch a congregation filter in prior to a worship service on a Sunday morning. Mind you this is not reflective of all churches, nor the Church of the Palms. The crowd differs from that of the Master’s because people try to find a seat as far away from the front as possible. Even more amusing is the couple that arrives late and stands at the back looking for a seat and seeing the wife whisper to her husband saying, “I told you we should have left sooner. Now we have to sit up front”. We take our assigned seating in the church very seriously. These are seats that are passed from generation to generation in the same way that season ticket holders for the Greenbay Packers do. Then, if the seats should become available those next in line on the waiting list are given the seats. Why are we afraid to sit so close to the front? Are we scared the pastor is going to ask us to serve? Are we fearful that Jesus might actually reach out and touch us?
God has not called us to a passive faith. In Matthew 10 Jesus sends the disciples out to cure the sick, raise the dead, cure the lepers, and cast out demons. Jesus did not say “Sit here and wait on me. This won’t take long”. Jesus did not send a text or IM to his disciples saying “brb”. Jesus has asked us to sit as close to the 18th green as possible. To get as close to the front as possible so we can be a part of the action. Jesus tells the disciples, including us, we have been given authority over unclean spirits, to cast them out, to cure every disease and every sickness. In other words, we are to carry the good news of Christ throughout the world. We are the arms, legs, and feet who physically take care of others. We are the voice of Christ that soothes and comforts others. We are the Body of Christ that is present in the brokenness of the world, showing it that the Kingdom of God is near. Through our outreach in missions others are able to experience the beginnings of eternal life, knowing and anticipating the second advent of Christ. October is mission’s emphasis month for us at the Church of the Palms. Let us show the world how popular Jesus is by the size of the crowd that follows him. Jesus will lead us to where we need to be. There are many opportunities for mission’s work and outreach for us on a local, regional, and global level. I encourage you to seek out those opportunities.
Not quite the same in the church as it is at a sporting event, or any other type of event that sparks an interest inside us. It is actually interesting to watch a congregation filter in prior to a worship service on a Sunday morning. Mind you this is not reflective of all churches, nor the Church of the Palms. The crowd differs from that of the Master’s because people try to find a seat as far away from the front as possible. Even more amusing is the couple that arrives late and stands at the back looking for a seat and seeing the wife whisper to her husband saying, “I told you we should have left sooner. Now we have to sit up front”. We take our assigned seating in the church very seriously. These are seats that are passed from generation to generation in the same way that season ticket holders for the Greenbay Packers do. Then, if the seats should become available those next in line on the waiting list are given the seats. Why are we afraid to sit so close to the front? Are we scared the pastor is going to ask us to serve? Are we fearful that Jesus might actually reach out and touch us?
God has not called us to a passive faith. In Matthew 10 Jesus sends the disciples out to cure the sick, raise the dead, cure the lepers, and cast out demons. Jesus did not say “Sit here and wait on me. This won’t take long”. Jesus did not send a text or IM to his disciples saying “brb”. Jesus has asked us to sit as close to the 18th green as possible. To get as close to the front as possible so we can be a part of the action. Jesus tells the disciples, including us, we have been given authority over unclean spirits, to cast them out, to cure every disease and every sickness. In other words, we are to carry the good news of Christ throughout the world. We are the arms, legs, and feet who physically take care of others. We are the voice of Christ that soothes and comforts others. We are the Body of Christ that is present in the brokenness of the world, showing it that the Kingdom of God is near. Through our outreach in missions others are able to experience the beginnings of eternal life, knowing and anticipating the second advent of Christ. October is mission’s emphasis month for us at the Church of the Palms. Let us show the world how popular Jesus is by the size of the crowd that follows him. Jesus will lead us to where we need to be. There are many opportunities for mission’s work and outreach for us on a local, regional, and global level. I encourage you to seek out those opportunities.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
In the name of God
I wonder what must have been going through the minds of those Confederate soldiers, who manned the large cannons on the Battery, as they prepared to fire upon Ft. Sumter? The cannon balls were impractical because the weight of the ammunition prevented direct volleys from being fired upon the enemy. Yet, a way to cause the most damage by a weapon, which at that time must have seemed technologically advanced for that era in history, was implemented. The cannon balls were skipped along the water in the same fashion one skips rocks. This almost seems laughable compared to our weapons technology of today. Stop and think about how weapons in modern history have become more and more destructive. From the musket to the rifle to the Gatling gun, humans have found more efficient ways to inflict maximum damage. WWI saw chemical warfare in the form of mustard gas break on to the scene. Let’s not forget about other weapons, which made their debut during this war. Tanks and bi-planes improved our ability to kill each other. In WWII the Nazi war machine featured the top of the line fighter plane (Messerschmitt) as the Allies countered with the P-51. Adolf Hitler launched the V1 and V2 rockets against the British people during his reign as Fuhrer of Germany with the hopes of destroying their will to fight. Above all else we cannot forget about the damage, including death, caused by the A-bomb dropped on Nagasaki and Hiroshima. Guns, chemicals, bombs, and missiles are continually being improved so they may inflict the most damage possible.
There is another weapon that often goes unrecognized by the inhabitants of the earth but seems to be used more often than any other weapon known to humankind. We could almost call this a weapon of mass destruction. The weapon I speak of is the Holy Bible. Scripture has been used to justify wars such as the Crusades. God’s commands have been referenced when medical clinics have been bombed because of certain procedures performed inside of them. Slavery around the world has been justified with Scripture by oppressors who claimed those being enslaved did not have a soul. No soul meant God created the enslaved as lesser beings. At times the events of 9/11/01 have been compared to God’s destruction of the Tower of Babel. Even better, natural disasters like the Haitian earthquake or certain hurricanes are portrayed as God’s punishment against sinful nations of cities. Ethnic groups, different religions, and those living alternative lifestyles are among many whose sin is called out by Christians. Christians and non-Christians appear to have an endless supply of Christian Bibles to hurl at the groups they do not like.
It seems the most effective method of implementing damage in the name of God is redefining God to support ideological beliefs. Michael Yaconelli referred to these Christians as Kingdom Monitors. These are congregations or individuals who have developed standards by which upon a person’s value in God’s eyes are assessed. The actions of others are judged, the target is sited, the weapon is fired, and people are condemned. One church, in reference to local ministries such as a soup kitchen, said, “These people are just lazy. There are perfectly healthy men capable of finding a job and making a living. That is why we refuse to get involved”. When did the church receive the authority from God to determine who is worthy of God’s grace and love? John 3:17 states, “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” The church is supposed to the first place where the kingdom of God is experienced, yes?
Recently I have been watching a person I know going through a difficult time in their life experience the “ugly” side of the Christian faith. My friend has seen their life discussed openly on Facebook. The same people, those thought to have a close personal relationship with my friend, have wiped the dust from their Bibles and found appropriate verses to hurl in a way the damage is maximized. Each one is a DIRECT HIT. There is no grace being shown. There is no love being shown. There is no compassion being shown. Only judgment is being offered up. Instead of support regardless of the outcome there has been a constant barrage of Biblical references designed to inflict maximum damage on its target. All is done in the name of God. Is this really what the Bible teaches us to do? Is Scripture a tool for judgment or a way in which God’s grace is revealed?
John 13:34 “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” 1 John 4:21 “And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.” Galatians 6:2 “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Look up John 15:13) How has the command to love one another become so distorted? The challenge for us, as professed Christians and local churches, is daunting. We should be reflecting to others the same love and grace from God we have experienced. Instead of judgment let us hold each other’s hands in support. Instead of hurling Bibles let us speak a language of love. It is time to stop the mass destruction in the name of God. If we read, study, and meditate on the word of God then combine this with prayer our churches may start to fill up again. Our relationships with each other will improve. Our hearts will be transformed and instead of living our lives for ourselves we will be living them for God. Then, when all is said and done, maybe we will hear these words found in Matthew 25, “Well done good and faithful servant”.
There is another weapon that often goes unrecognized by the inhabitants of the earth but seems to be used more often than any other weapon known to humankind. We could almost call this a weapon of mass destruction. The weapon I speak of is the Holy Bible. Scripture has been used to justify wars such as the Crusades. God’s commands have been referenced when medical clinics have been bombed because of certain procedures performed inside of them. Slavery around the world has been justified with Scripture by oppressors who claimed those being enslaved did not have a soul. No soul meant God created the enslaved as lesser beings. At times the events of 9/11/01 have been compared to God’s destruction of the Tower of Babel. Even better, natural disasters like the Haitian earthquake or certain hurricanes are portrayed as God’s punishment against sinful nations of cities. Ethnic groups, different religions, and those living alternative lifestyles are among many whose sin is called out by Christians. Christians and non-Christians appear to have an endless supply of Christian Bibles to hurl at the groups they do not like.
It seems the most effective method of implementing damage in the name of God is redefining God to support ideological beliefs. Michael Yaconelli referred to these Christians as Kingdom Monitors. These are congregations or individuals who have developed standards by which upon a person’s value in God’s eyes are assessed. The actions of others are judged, the target is sited, the weapon is fired, and people are condemned. One church, in reference to local ministries such as a soup kitchen, said, “These people are just lazy. There are perfectly healthy men capable of finding a job and making a living. That is why we refuse to get involved”. When did the church receive the authority from God to determine who is worthy of God’s grace and love? John 3:17 states, “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” The church is supposed to the first place where the kingdom of God is experienced, yes?
Recently I have been watching a person I know going through a difficult time in their life experience the “ugly” side of the Christian faith. My friend has seen their life discussed openly on Facebook. The same people, those thought to have a close personal relationship with my friend, have wiped the dust from their Bibles and found appropriate verses to hurl in a way the damage is maximized. Each one is a DIRECT HIT. There is no grace being shown. There is no love being shown. There is no compassion being shown. Only judgment is being offered up. Instead of support regardless of the outcome there has been a constant barrage of Biblical references designed to inflict maximum damage on its target. All is done in the name of God. Is this really what the Bible teaches us to do? Is Scripture a tool for judgment or a way in which God’s grace is revealed?
John 13:34 “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” 1 John 4:21 “And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.” Galatians 6:2 “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Look up John 15:13) How has the command to love one another become so distorted? The challenge for us, as professed Christians and local churches, is daunting. We should be reflecting to others the same love and grace from God we have experienced. Instead of judgment let us hold each other’s hands in support. Instead of hurling Bibles let us speak a language of love. It is time to stop the mass destruction in the name of God. If we read, study, and meditate on the word of God then combine this with prayer our churches may start to fill up again. Our relationships with each other will improve. Our hearts will be transformed and instead of living our lives for ourselves we will be living them for God. Then, when all is said and done, maybe we will hear these words found in Matthew 25, “Well done good and faithful servant”.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Conflict
I was in Lowe’s Hardware the other day and chuckled under my breath as I passed by the sections with tools. When I was in the eighth grade my parents (mainly my dad) enrolled me into shop class. The grade one received in this class was based upon the quality of the work done. Even though I made it through the class without cutting off any of my extremities an outsider looking in could definitely say this was not one of my strengths. In other words, I know what a hammer looks like but it may not be a wise thing to let me operate such heavy equipment. After graduation from high school I, like many graduates, faced the decision of what I really wanted to do with my life. My dad, who received an electrical engineering degree from the University of South Carolina, decided it was best for me to follow in his footsteps. I enrolled in the pre-engineering program offered by Auburn University-Montgomery. The best description of my first year in college was that it was not a pleasant experience. In fact it was a nightmare. I failed calculus the first time, then made a “D” the second time. At least I showed improvement. Frankly, I could not care less about the area under the “bell curve”. Chemistry was fun but I am forever grateful for my lab partner since he is the one who carried us through that class. One of the funnier moments came during the graphics design class that was required for engineers. At least I earned a well-deserved “C” in that class. My test scores were very good but my designs pointed towards another problem. I will never forget what the instructor said to me one day after class. We were discussing one of my basic designs and he said, “I have never seen someone try so hard and do so poorly”. It would be a physics class that ended my engineering career. Yes, I DROPPED the class.
A shroud of disappointment surrounded my dad as he realized I could not live up to his expectations. We did not and still do not see things the same way on many issues. My passions and interests are very different from my dad’s. Unfortunately this has created an ongoing conflict in our relationship. Each passing year sees another opportunity to resolve any differences drift away. A simple solution to this conflict would be to utter the words “I love you” to each other. I will always be able to see how many times I reached out to resolve our conflict, but I wonder how many times my dad reached out to me only to see me turn him away? Yet, conflict resolution doesn’t appear to be that simple. I have observed that differences between individuals and communities tend to be stumbling blocks and not viewed as the uniqueness in which God has created us.
Conflict not only exists among those who are different, it is prevalent among those who are similar. I remember seeing a cartoon posted on the wall of an architect. It showed the same building from three different ways. The caption went something like this: “How the architect envisions it, the engineer applies it, and the contractor builds it.” This speaks to how we as individuals differ in how we see things. Diversity provides an opportunity for learning. In our differences we should be coming to the table to communicate our feelings and thoughts rather than shutting down opportunities to resolve any conflicts that exist.
Through out history, especially church history, differences have created conflict because communication breaks down. As a result the church has created an atmosphere of animosity rather than love. Groups quarrel passionately with each other instead of talking. Power struggles ensue as one group wants to dominate the other. Eventually a human vision of God is developed that reflects a god who rejects others because they do not measure up to human expectations. I appreciate how passions create excitement within each individual. In the church passions can seem to act as a catalyst for conflict rather than portraying a God who loves all people. I for one am grateful for the uniqueness of each individual at the Church of the Palms. Our diversity portrays a big God who is Lord of all. In this diversity we will not only grow individually but will grow the body of Christ through our witness. Our journey is just beginning and it will be fun. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of it.
Watch this YouTube video if you are able
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTBx-hHf4BE
A shroud of disappointment surrounded my dad as he realized I could not live up to his expectations. We did not and still do not see things the same way on many issues. My passions and interests are very different from my dad’s. Unfortunately this has created an ongoing conflict in our relationship. Each passing year sees another opportunity to resolve any differences drift away. A simple solution to this conflict would be to utter the words “I love you” to each other. I will always be able to see how many times I reached out to resolve our conflict, but I wonder how many times my dad reached out to me only to see me turn him away? Yet, conflict resolution doesn’t appear to be that simple. I have observed that differences between individuals and communities tend to be stumbling blocks and not viewed as the uniqueness in which God has created us.
Conflict not only exists among those who are different, it is prevalent among those who are similar. I remember seeing a cartoon posted on the wall of an architect. It showed the same building from three different ways. The caption went something like this: “How the architect envisions it, the engineer applies it, and the contractor builds it.” This speaks to how we as individuals differ in how we see things. Diversity provides an opportunity for learning. In our differences we should be coming to the table to communicate our feelings and thoughts rather than shutting down opportunities to resolve any conflicts that exist.
Through out history, especially church history, differences have created conflict because communication breaks down. As a result the church has created an atmosphere of animosity rather than love. Groups quarrel passionately with each other instead of talking. Power struggles ensue as one group wants to dominate the other. Eventually a human vision of God is developed that reflects a god who rejects others because they do not measure up to human expectations. I appreciate how passions create excitement within each individual. In the church passions can seem to act as a catalyst for conflict rather than portraying a God who loves all people. I for one am grateful for the uniqueness of each individual at the Church of the Palms. Our diversity portrays a big God who is Lord of all. In this diversity we will not only grow individually but will grow the body of Christ through our witness. Our journey is just beginning and it will be fun. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of it.
Watch this YouTube video if you are able
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTBx-hHf4BE
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
A Light Shines in the Darkness
The Labor Day festivities have come and gone with some fanfare. The fall equinox waits patiently for us near the end of September. As summer comes to a close I find myself reflecting upon my own childhood adventures. One particular memory, which jumps out at me, is a game I used to play with some of my cousins along with my sister. The name of the game we played was called night tag. Obviously the name hints to the time in which the game could be played effectively but there were other rules as well. Night tag was an indoor game and not played outside (Much to the displeasure expressed by the adults). The participants in this game were confined to an area such as a mid-size to large room. The more furniture in the room the better as hiding places could be found in abundance. After the person who was selected to be “it” was picked a blindfold was placed around their eyes and the lights in the room were turned off. Not only was it dark but it was “good ‘n dark”. “It” started the count down, “One thousand one, one thousand two…”, as soon as the lights were turned off. This was the clue for others to find a hiding place and avoid the tagger. Upon the words “Ready or not” all who were playing knew the fun was ready to begin. Remember, not one person could see anything or anybody. If we could sense “it” was near us we would change locations in the room. Ultimately players were running into players as well as the furniture. Loud bangs and uncontrollable laughter could be heard throughout the house.
Darkness has a way of placing a shroud of uncertainty around us. Even a game as simple as hide-n-seek becomes more of a challenge when darkness is added to the game. Depth perception, direction, and balance are a few of the areas altered by such an obstacle as darkness. A person becomes timid in their approach as they hope to make their way to the desired destination. Uncertainty leads to doubt. Doubt allows a person to question the direction they are traveling in life. There may have been a time when a person has felt as though everything was moving in the right direction. The path being traveled is well lit. Then all of a sudden the lights are turned off. What seemed so clear has now become a blur. In the darkness fear also crawls deep into our soul. No longer can we make our own way. If only…
Imagine how much easier the game night tag would have been if each of the participants had a flashlight and the “it” was not blindfolded. No, it would not have been as much fun but definitely easier. In our own lives there have been moments when everything seemed so good, the direction was clear, and all of a sudden the lights go out. I met Joel Townsend when I attended the “Friends in Faith” Sunday school class at Covenant UMC. I always enjoyed talking to him. One day I received a phone call from a dear friend, Filip Raeckleboom, telling me Joel had died in a car wreck. Even though I was not as close to Joel as many others were the news was still life altering. Left behind were a wife, three young children, family members, and many friends. Darkness did not creep into the many lives affected by this moment but it leapt. How could this happen? What was God thinking? Lives were altered in many ways by darkness most notably in the area of faith. Maybe some people lost direction temporarily, maybe some turned from the church, or maybe some even turned away from God altogether. I am not really sure. If only there had been a light to guide them. I know the faith of Joel’s wife, Mara, has been a blessing to many people. She relied and still relies upon the light of God to get her through those moments when darkness tries to take over the light. How about you? When, not if, has your life been altered by the advent of darkness? Have you been able to make your way through it? There is good news. A light has been provided. Matthew 5:14 says “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” John 8:12 says Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." In the midst of darkness God has given us a light to help guide us through our daily lives. This light is present in both the joys and sorrows of life. We are never alone. This is a light which is eternal and can never be extinguished. There are going to be times when we loose direction or question God but know that the love of God is that light which guides us every moment of every day. How can we as individuals and a church reflect the light of God?
Darkness has a way of placing a shroud of uncertainty around us. Even a game as simple as hide-n-seek becomes more of a challenge when darkness is added to the game. Depth perception, direction, and balance are a few of the areas altered by such an obstacle as darkness. A person becomes timid in their approach as they hope to make their way to the desired destination. Uncertainty leads to doubt. Doubt allows a person to question the direction they are traveling in life. There may have been a time when a person has felt as though everything was moving in the right direction. The path being traveled is well lit. Then all of a sudden the lights are turned off. What seemed so clear has now become a blur. In the darkness fear also crawls deep into our soul. No longer can we make our own way. If only…
Imagine how much easier the game night tag would have been if each of the participants had a flashlight and the “it” was not blindfolded. No, it would not have been as much fun but definitely easier. In our own lives there have been moments when everything seemed so good, the direction was clear, and all of a sudden the lights go out. I met Joel Townsend when I attended the “Friends in Faith” Sunday school class at Covenant UMC. I always enjoyed talking to him. One day I received a phone call from a dear friend, Filip Raeckleboom, telling me Joel had died in a car wreck. Even though I was not as close to Joel as many others were the news was still life altering. Left behind were a wife, three young children, family members, and many friends. Darkness did not creep into the many lives affected by this moment but it leapt. How could this happen? What was God thinking? Lives were altered in many ways by darkness most notably in the area of faith. Maybe some people lost direction temporarily, maybe some turned from the church, or maybe some even turned away from God altogether. I am not really sure. If only there had been a light to guide them. I know the faith of Joel’s wife, Mara, has been a blessing to many people. She relied and still relies upon the light of God to get her through those moments when darkness tries to take over the light. How about you? When, not if, has your life been altered by the advent of darkness? Have you been able to make your way through it? There is good news. A light has been provided. Matthew 5:14 says “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” John 8:12 says Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." In the midst of darkness God has given us a light to help guide us through our daily lives. This light is present in both the joys and sorrows of life. We are never alone. This is a light which is eternal and can never be extinguished. There are going to be times when we loose direction or question God but know that the love of God is that light which guides us every moment of every day. How can we as individuals and a church reflect the light of God?
My True Love
As the sun fades away
My heart fears the hidden places deep within
Those found in the cold, dark night
My eyes grow weary, asleep I fall
I am apart from my true love
Morning soon breaks the grip of the night
My heart is awakened
Awakened by the warm kisses of the sunbeams upon my cheek
A new day is at hand
My heart leaps with joy
My true love is with me again
David Norrell
July 2010
Thursday, September 2, 2010
It's a God Thing
When the University of Alabama takes to the football field this weekend there is no doubt that I will find myself feeling homesick. There are times during moments of solitude my mind drifts away from what I am doing and transports me to Alabama. There will always be a connection as I was born and raised, for the most part, in this state. The fondness for my “home state” brings about a measure of comfort and I do find myself imagining what it would be like if I moved back to Alabama. Isn’t it natural for us to gravitate towards the things which bring about comfort?
The other day I was sitting in a waiting room with Dave Harrelson while Betsy was undergoing knee replacement surgery. There was another gentleman present in the waiting room, which prompted Dave and me to pick seats at a safe distant from him. Typically in locations such as waiting rooms we seek distance from others for comfort. Without talking to a person and learning who they are we often conclude there is nothing we have in common with them (no connection). This being the first time I have met the Harrelson’s my conversation with Dave started out in typical fashion, which was very general. Naturally I assumed they were not native to this area, as most residents in these parts have migrated from other regions of the country. Dave informed me they moved from San Diego. They had settled in Southern California after he retired from the Navy. Further discussion revealed he was from Anniston, Alabama. Oh my gosh, another kindred spirit whose roots are grounded in a state I affectionately refer to as God’s country. Remember the gentleman sitting in the waiting room with us? He overheard our conversation and said, “Did I hear y’all say you were from Alabama? I am from Opp, Alabama.” What are the chances that the only three people sitting in a waiting room, at Hilton Head Hospital, were all from the state of Alabama? Even better, the connections between the three of us go deeper than being natives of the same state. He and Dave are both residents of Sun City and former Navy. Opp, located in southern Alabama near Enterprise, produced former Alabama player and Coach Mike Dubose. All three of us found a connection.
I am constantly amazed at how we are connected to others in one way or another. Think about it, Bill Griffin had a daughter attend the University of Alabama, Ann Kundrat was born in Clanton, Alabama (near my home town of Selma), and Candace Gross’s son Jacob, was stationed at Maxwell AFB in Montgomery. Relationships are facilitated through connections. Comfort puts us at ease, which provides a way for relationships to flourish. It’s a God thing! Think of the diversity of the area in which we, members of the Church of the Palms, live. So many differences exist between us yet we also have a connection. We profess the same belief, at least I think we do (I am chuckling), in God through our creeds. I believe each one of us is a unique creation woven together in our belief in God. Our belief in God, as we examine the Apostle’s Creed this month, gives us a measure of comfort. Comfort facilitates our relationship with each other. It’s a God thing! God has intended us to be in a relationship not only with God, but also with each other. Yet we should not limit the scope of our relationships to others. Christians often push away those who are not like them, thus rejecting God’s intention for creation. We at the Church of the Palms are here for a reason. We, in every aspect of our lives, are to be a witness to the God we profess a belief in. ALL humankind was created in God’s image and this gives us a connection to each other no matter who it is. Let us take this message to the people. It’s a God thing!
The other day I was sitting in a waiting room with Dave Harrelson while Betsy was undergoing knee replacement surgery. There was another gentleman present in the waiting room, which prompted Dave and me to pick seats at a safe distant from him. Typically in locations such as waiting rooms we seek distance from others for comfort. Without talking to a person and learning who they are we often conclude there is nothing we have in common with them (no connection). This being the first time I have met the Harrelson’s my conversation with Dave started out in typical fashion, which was very general. Naturally I assumed they were not native to this area, as most residents in these parts have migrated from other regions of the country. Dave informed me they moved from San Diego. They had settled in Southern California after he retired from the Navy. Further discussion revealed he was from Anniston, Alabama. Oh my gosh, another kindred spirit whose roots are grounded in a state I affectionately refer to as God’s country. Remember the gentleman sitting in the waiting room with us? He overheard our conversation and said, “Did I hear y’all say you were from Alabama? I am from Opp, Alabama.” What are the chances that the only three people sitting in a waiting room, at Hilton Head Hospital, were all from the state of Alabama? Even better, the connections between the three of us go deeper than being natives of the same state. He and Dave are both residents of Sun City and former Navy. Opp, located in southern Alabama near Enterprise, produced former Alabama player and Coach Mike Dubose. All three of us found a connection.
I am constantly amazed at how we are connected to others in one way or another. Think about it, Bill Griffin had a daughter attend the University of Alabama, Ann Kundrat was born in Clanton, Alabama (near my home town of Selma), and Candace Gross’s son Jacob, was stationed at Maxwell AFB in Montgomery. Relationships are facilitated through connections. Comfort puts us at ease, which provides a way for relationships to flourish. It’s a God thing! Think of the diversity of the area in which we, members of the Church of the Palms, live. So many differences exist between us yet we also have a connection. We profess the same belief, at least I think we do (I am chuckling), in God through our creeds. I believe each one of us is a unique creation woven together in our belief in God. Our belief in God, as we examine the Apostle’s Creed this month, gives us a measure of comfort. Comfort facilitates our relationship with each other. It’s a God thing! God has intended us to be in a relationship not only with God, but also with each other. Yet we should not limit the scope of our relationships to others. Christians often push away those who are not like them, thus rejecting God’s intention for creation. We at the Church of the Palms are here for a reason. We, in every aspect of our lives, are to be a witness to the God we profess a belief in. ALL humankind was created in God’s image and this gives us a connection to each other no matter who it is. Let us take this message to the people. It’s a God thing!
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Its that time again
Where has time gone? To me it seems like only yesterday we were ringing in the New Year with traditional festivities. For some, their minds and hearts were filled with excitement in anticipation of saying “goodbye” to the old and “hello” to the new. Where has time gone? In the blink of an eye we are prepared to say goodbye to August. Anticipation of change once again fills the air around us. I have noticed people seem to have a new bounce in their step as they look forward to the upcoming changes. The days are growing shorter and eventually cooler. Trees will clothe themselves with color variations of gold and red leaves. It is about time for the annual migration of birds and people from our country’s northern region as they set their sights on the warmer climate of the south. The tourist season is about over, much to the anticipation of many local residents. Labor Day weekend is around the corner with plans being made to celebrate the “end” of summer although summer is not officially over until September 21. I would be remiss if I failed to mention the holy grail of southern tradition in the fall. Hank Williams, Jr. said it best in a song, “Are you ready for some football. Are you ready for a party”?
Anticipation of change is present at the Church of the Palms. Sunday school returns along with other familiar activities such as the fall bazaar. An “old friend” returns as we anticipate the formation of small groups. Fellowship, study, and prayer will bring about ways to reconnect with each other. Many opportunities for Bible studies independent of small groups will present themselves as a way to satisfy a hunger burning deep within our souls. A new journey will begin by some of our youth as they anticipate the beginning of confirmation classes. We are even exploring the possibilities of a week day prayer service as a way to nourish our spiritual hunger. Yes, anticipation fills the air with an unbridled excitement.
Looking at the opportunities before us I have noticed a commonality in all of the events. Each event offers a way to grow a deeper faith through studying God’s word and loving relationships with each other. Two thoughts immediately come to mind. First, upon completing the testing part of my psychological evaluation (required for those exploring ordained ministry in the UMC) came the exit interview. The person responsible for the administration of the test and interview was Rev. John Holler. He gave me some advice that still resonates within me today. He said pastors tend to experience burnout when they try to go it alone. He urged me to stay connected to God by nourishing my spiritual life through prayer, study, and fellowship. The second thought came during a continuing education event for clergy which was led by Rev. Dr. Michael Wolfe in the Greenville District. Rev. Wolfe serves as a mentor for candidates exploring a calling into ordained ministry. He has a sting 168 inches long hanging in his study with one inch blacked out. This is representative of a week. Each week has 168 hours and the average person dedicates approximately 1 hour during the week to their spiritual life. This limits the chances for growing a deeper faith in Christ.
Staying connected with God and spiritual growth are a part of the upcoming events anticipated at the Church of the Palms. We struggle when we try to go it alone on our faith journey. There is strength in numbers. We find peace and comfort through the love of God expressed in our relationships. Do you realize that spiritual growth is more likely to occur through Bible study and Sunday school, rather than a 15-20 minute sermon? I see church growth in two ways, physical and spiritual. If we seek to grow the church numerically without Jesus Christ as its foundation we may experience a limited success in the short term but eventually the numbers will dwindle. If we seek to grow the church through spiritual nourishment the chances of increasing the numerical size of the church are greater. If we begin with ourselves first we see how our biblical witness to others is influenced. Seeking God’s kingdom allows us to offer a community longing to fill some kind of void in their life. I, for one, am excited about the upcoming events and look forward to growing in my faith as we sit side by side with each other.
Anticipation of change is present at the Church of the Palms. Sunday school returns along with other familiar activities such as the fall bazaar. An “old friend” returns as we anticipate the formation of small groups. Fellowship, study, and prayer will bring about ways to reconnect with each other. Many opportunities for Bible studies independent of small groups will present themselves as a way to satisfy a hunger burning deep within our souls. A new journey will begin by some of our youth as they anticipate the beginning of confirmation classes. We are even exploring the possibilities of a week day prayer service as a way to nourish our spiritual hunger. Yes, anticipation fills the air with an unbridled excitement.
Looking at the opportunities before us I have noticed a commonality in all of the events. Each event offers a way to grow a deeper faith through studying God’s word and loving relationships with each other. Two thoughts immediately come to mind. First, upon completing the testing part of my psychological evaluation (required for those exploring ordained ministry in the UMC) came the exit interview. The person responsible for the administration of the test and interview was Rev. John Holler. He gave me some advice that still resonates within me today. He said pastors tend to experience burnout when they try to go it alone. He urged me to stay connected to God by nourishing my spiritual life through prayer, study, and fellowship. The second thought came during a continuing education event for clergy which was led by Rev. Dr. Michael Wolfe in the Greenville District. Rev. Wolfe serves as a mentor for candidates exploring a calling into ordained ministry. He has a sting 168 inches long hanging in his study with one inch blacked out. This is representative of a week. Each week has 168 hours and the average person dedicates approximately 1 hour during the week to their spiritual life. This limits the chances for growing a deeper faith in Christ.
Staying connected with God and spiritual growth are a part of the upcoming events anticipated at the Church of the Palms. We struggle when we try to go it alone on our faith journey. There is strength in numbers. We find peace and comfort through the love of God expressed in our relationships. Do you realize that spiritual growth is more likely to occur through Bible study and Sunday school, rather than a 15-20 minute sermon? I see church growth in two ways, physical and spiritual. If we seek to grow the church numerically without Jesus Christ as its foundation we may experience a limited success in the short term but eventually the numbers will dwindle. If we seek to grow the church through spiritual nourishment the chances of increasing the numerical size of the church are greater. If we begin with ourselves first we see how our biblical witness to others is influenced. Seeking God’s kingdom allows us to offer a community longing to fill some kind of void in their life. I, for one, am excited about the upcoming events and look forward to growing in my faith as we sit side by side with each other.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Sleep Over
One of the ministries Church of the Palms participates in is Family Promise. There are many churches in the area that also support this mission. While I am not that familiar with Family Promise I have been exposed to the nature of this type of ministry. In Greenville, S.C. area churches participate in Interfaith Hospitality. Both these ministries work with families that, for various reasons such as loss of a job, are homeless. These families enter a program, such as that offered by Family Promise, where basic needs are provided by the ministry to give families a chance to get back on their feet. One way the ministry is structured is by pairing with local churches in close proximity to each other. Families sleep overnight at a host church, which is partnered with a support church. Each church is asked to provide housing and meals for the families one week out of every quarter. Our partner church, Grace Coastal PCA, serves as the host church while we fulfill the role of the support church. Families are housed at Grace Coastal while we, COTP, help provide meals and volunteers to spend the night with the families in need.
Church of the Palms is asked to participate in Family Promise ministry once a quarter. Our turn came a little over a week ago but did not go as expected. Grace Coastal has been undergoing renovations along with an expansion of the existing building. Since they are the host church in our partnership a problem arose as a result of limited space. We were asked to serve as the host church during this week due to the unforeseen circumstances at Grace Coastal. As the week was being coordinated through the diligent efforts of Karen Stevenson I was asked to be one of the overnight chaperones. I had a hard time saying no to the request. While I have knowledge of ministries such as Family Promise, I as an individual have never been an active participant in the ministry. This presented me with the opportunity to experience what the ministry is all about. The night arrived for my “sleep over” which had been greatly anticipated up until I saw my bed. Before me was a cot which pretended to be a bed. The “bed” was unfolded so it could be prepared for use. Unfortunately bedtime approached which meant I could no longer avoid the inevitable. After my body was stretched out on top of the “bed” my thoughts turned to my own comfortable bed with a mattress that makes me feel as though I am floating atop the billowing clouds.
Yes, the “bed” was uncomfortable which I fervently expressed to God by way of lamentations. At this point the night couldn’t have been any worse than it was. I was wrong. Thin walls enabled me to hear another chaperone snore the night away. Morning did not come quickly enough. Upon waking, I went into the kitchen, surveyed the unfamiliar surroundings, and yearned for my personal stash of coffee. While I was feeling sorry for myself because I lacked the creature comforts of home I was greeted by something I had not anticipated. As I looked down, standing before me was a little girl with an angelic face. The precious smile beaming from her face suggested to me that she was happy that people cared enough to provide for her and her family. Her eyes reflected the genuine love she has encountered through the volunteers of the churches supporting Family Promise. My selfishness cast a shroud of guilt over me. Here I was feeling sorry for myself because of the inadequacy of the conditions while the families being cared for may have viewed the accommodations much in the same way a vacationer views a four start hotel.
The little girl standing before me was the face of Jesus the Christ. Quickly, I was reminded of a passage found in Matthew 25:31-45 (The parable of the Sheep and The Goats). Paraphrasing, the passage could read: “We were homeless and you gave us a place to stay. We were abandoned by society but you cared about us. We hit rock bottom but you lifted us up. Lord, Lord, when did we do this. Truly I tell you, when you have done that for them you have done that for me”. Jesus asked Peter in John 21 three times, “Do you love me?” Peter answered yes each time. Jesus responded to each answer, “Feed my lambs. Shepherd my sheep. Feed my sheep”. We, as members of the Church of the Palms, belong to the body of Christ. It is our arms and legs, which we have been called to use so we can make Christ known through our actions. Through an authentic compassion grounded in our faith we can make known the unconditional love of God. I feel that the church today, is at times, more concerned about its own needs (Just as I did) rather than serving the one who is professed as the Redeemer who was sent because God so loved the world. We as followers of Jesus Christ are called to nurture and care for others who are unable to provide for themselves. If we do not care, how will others know Christ lives today? Wherever you passions lay I encourage you to use them as a way to make Christ known in our community.
Church of the Palms is asked to participate in Family Promise ministry once a quarter. Our turn came a little over a week ago but did not go as expected. Grace Coastal has been undergoing renovations along with an expansion of the existing building. Since they are the host church in our partnership a problem arose as a result of limited space. We were asked to serve as the host church during this week due to the unforeseen circumstances at Grace Coastal. As the week was being coordinated through the diligent efforts of Karen Stevenson I was asked to be one of the overnight chaperones. I had a hard time saying no to the request. While I have knowledge of ministries such as Family Promise, I as an individual have never been an active participant in the ministry. This presented me with the opportunity to experience what the ministry is all about. The night arrived for my “sleep over” which had been greatly anticipated up until I saw my bed. Before me was a cot which pretended to be a bed. The “bed” was unfolded so it could be prepared for use. Unfortunately bedtime approached which meant I could no longer avoid the inevitable. After my body was stretched out on top of the “bed” my thoughts turned to my own comfortable bed with a mattress that makes me feel as though I am floating atop the billowing clouds.
Yes, the “bed” was uncomfortable which I fervently expressed to God by way of lamentations. At this point the night couldn’t have been any worse than it was. I was wrong. Thin walls enabled me to hear another chaperone snore the night away. Morning did not come quickly enough. Upon waking, I went into the kitchen, surveyed the unfamiliar surroundings, and yearned for my personal stash of coffee. While I was feeling sorry for myself because I lacked the creature comforts of home I was greeted by something I had not anticipated. As I looked down, standing before me was a little girl with an angelic face. The precious smile beaming from her face suggested to me that she was happy that people cared enough to provide for her and her family. Her eyes reflected the genuine love she has encountered through the volunteers of the churches supporting Family Promise. My selfishness cast a shroud of guilt over me. Here I was feeling sorry for myself because of the inadequacy of the conditions while the families being cared for may have viewed the accommodations much in the same way a vacationer views a four start hotel.
The little girl standing before me was the face of Jesus the Christ. Quickly, I was reminded of a passage found in Matthew 25:31-45 (The parable of the Sheep and The Goats). Paraphrasing, the passage could read: “We were homeless and you gave us a place to stay. We were abandoned by society but you cared about us. We hit rock bottom but you lifted us up. Lord, Lord, when did we do this. Truly I tell you, when you have done that for them you have done that for me”. Jesus asked Peter in John 21 three times, “Do you love me?” Peter answered yes each time. Jesus responded to each answer, “Feed my lambs. Shepherd my sheep. Feed my sheep”. We, as members of the Church of the Palms, belong to the body of Christ. It is our arms and legs, which we have been called to use so we can make Christ known through our actions. Through an authentic compassion grounded in our faith we can make known the unconditional love of God. I feel that the church today, is at times, more concerned about its own needs (Just as I did) rather than serving the one who is professed as the Redeemer who was sent because God so loved the world. We as followers of Jesus Christ are called to nurture and care for others who are unable to provide for themselves. If we do not care, how will others know Christ lives today? Wherever you passions lay I encourage you to use them as a way to make Christ known in our community.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
A Precious Moment
Praise God, from Whom all blessings flow;
Praise Him, all creatures here below;
Praise Him above, ye heav’nly host;
We sing the doxology every Sunday. Why are we praising God? We live in a world full of violence, hatred, and apathy. People are oppressed by poverty with little hope on the horizon. Children are hungry and need care. Some families do not have a place to live. Disease tears apart our bodies until we can no longer sustain life. Personal struggles are faced every day. Our congregation is not immune to these daily problems. Why can’t life be easier? With all that goes wrong in life it is perplexing to the mind as we ask, “Why are we praising God”?
The most amazing thing happened to me the other day. I went to visit Henrietta Thomas (Anne Abernethy’s mother) at her nursing home in Port Royal. In all honesty I cannot say going to a nursing home has been a most desirable activity for me. Nursing homes can appear to be places of despair with no hope. Maybe we can describe a nursing home as the place where we leave, and forget, the elderly for the remainder of their life. As I entered the nursing home I noticed the familiar smell that exists in all facilities of this type. As we reached the room, Anne introduced me to her mother. A genuine smile appeared on Henrietta’s face, not because I was there, but because someone, apart from Anne, had come to see her. Pastor Wayne Smith had been visiting Henrietta, and he called me one day to tell me about her. What a blessing this turned out to be! Henrietta is 93 years old with arthritis in her hands, she needs a walking aide, and she is loosing her eye sight to glaucoma. (It may seem strange that I am describing a woman suffering in such a fashion as a blessing). After the introductions, Henrietta sat down on her bed. I sat in a chair facing her, turned in the direction of her daughter, and while holding a puzzle book, Henrietta said “I have already finished this word search puzzle which I started this morning”. She is proud of her accomplishment. During our conversation I learn that Henrietta reads music and plays the piano (She has a keyboard in her room). After we share in communion Henrietta says she feels like playing a song. She makes her way to the keyboard and plays a hymn, quite well I must say. All I could do was close my eyes and let the melody flow over me like a gentle summer breeze in the cool of the evening. Henrietta then wanted to know if she could play another hymn. On the day I met Henrietta, I met a person who wants to praise God with music as long as she can see and her hands are able. She has placed her trust in God to get her through each and every day. The doxology took on a new meaning for me.
Henrietta is just one of the many stories I can tell in my short time at Church of the Palms.
Psalm 146 starts out “Praise the LORD! Praise the LORD, O my soul! I will praise the LORD as long as I live; I will sing praises to my God while I have my being.” God blesses us in so many ways even though our struggles impede our vision. The God who created the universe is the same God who brings us hope in our chaotic lives everyday. I hope we can, at some point, stand and shout from a mountain top that our God is mighty and worthy to be praised. Our God brings hope to a world which is broken. At one point in my life I was unhappy and did not see any hope. While it may be difficult to see that God’s mighty hand is at work in our lives, in that special love God has revealed in Christ Jesus, hope abounds and gives cause for praise. I want to be like Henrietta and hold strong to the promise of God’s redeeming grace.
Try this exercise. Take each letter of the alphabet and write a word that describes God.
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
X
Y
Z
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Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.
We sing the doxology every Sunday. Why are we praising God? We live in a world full of violence, hatred, and apathy. People are oppressed by poverty with little hope on the horizon. Children are hungry and need care. Some families do not have a place to live. Disease tears apart our bodies until we can no longer sustain life. Personal struggles are faced every day. Our congregation is not immune to these daily problems. Why can’t life be easier? With all that goes wrong in life it is perplexing to the mind as we ask, “Why are we praising God”?
The most amazing thing happened to me the other day. I went to visit Henrietta Thomas (Anne Abernethy’s mother) at her nursing home in Port Royal. In all honesty I cannot say going to a nursing home has been a most desirable activity for me. Nursing homes can appear to be places of despair with no hope. Maybe we can describe a nursing home as the place where we leave, and forget, the elderly for the remainder of their life. As I entered the nursing home I noticed the familiar smell that exists in all facilities of this type. As we reached the room, Anne introduced me to her mother. A genuine smile appeared on Henrietta’s face, not because I was there, but because someone, apart from Anne, had come to see her. Pastor Wayne Smith had been visiting Henrietta, and he called me one day to tell me about her. What a blessing this turned out to be! Henrietta is 93 years old with arthritis in her hands, she needs a walking aide, and she is loosing her eye sight to glaucoma. (It may seem strange that I am describing a woman suffering in such a fashion as a blessing). After the introductions, Henrietta sat down on her bed. I sat in a chair facing her, turned in the direction of her daughter, and while holding a puzzle book, Henrietta said “I have already finished this word search puzzle which I started this morning”. She is proud of her accomplishment. During our conversation I learn that Henrietta reads music and plays the piano (She has a keyboard in her room). After we share in communion Henrietta says she feels like playing a song. She makes her way to the keyboard and plays a hymn, quite well I must say. All I could do was close my eyes and let the melody flow over me like a gentle summer breeze in the cool of the evening. Henrietta then wanted to know if she could play another hymn. On the day I met Henrietta, I met a person who wants to praise God with music as long as she can see and her hands are able. She has placed her trust in God to get her through each and every day. The doxology took on a new meaning for me.
Henrietta is just one of the many stories I can tell in my short time at Church of the Palms.
Psalm 146 starts out “Praise the LORD! Praise the LORD, O my soul! I will praise the LORD as long as I live; I will sing praises to my God while I have my being.” God blesses us in so many ways even though our struggles impede our vision. The God who created the universe is the same God who brings us hope in our chaotic lives everyday. I hope we can, at some point, stand and shout from a mountain top that our God is mighty and worthy to be praised. Our God brings hope to a world which is broken. At one point in my life I was unhappy and did not see any hope. While it may be difficult to see that God’s mighty hand is at work in our lives, in that special love God has revealed in Christ Jesus, hope abounds and gives cause for praise. I want to be like Henrietta and hold strong to the promise of God’s redeeming grace.
Try this exercise. Take each letter of the alphabet and write a word that describes God.
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